If you guys read my post on "About my first love", this is about
the same guy.
By now, I am convinced that things are not possible between us
anymore. Yet, I do not want to forget him. I find myself wanting to
relive memories of the past with him and am actually afraid to
forget him. As I recall those days, I continue to be happy of the
happy times and hurt by the disappointments.
Others have shared that they try to forget and move on with
their lives after a failed relationship. Yet, here I am, afraid of
letting go of the past, afraid of losing those precious memories
about him.
I cannot understand why. Can anyone enlighten?
That's because you were too used to having him around in your
life for the period both of you were together.
Cry if you are upset and whenever you have reached your
emotional threshold, your tears will eventually kill the love
detachment off in your heart. And time will wash away all the lost,
numb, meanigless and uncomfortable feelings from you faster than
you think it should take.
Moving on doesn't means forgetting about it, it means you are
slowly rejecting him from your mind and you won't think about him
as often as now.
You can think less frequently of him to the point of getting use
to your current life routine without the need to think about
him.
It's only temporarily, you can think lesser of him but you can
never forget about him.
You will eventually erase him from your heart when you have
found someone better than him and your time spent with your new guy
and the love you have for the new guy will overtake and replaced
whatever remaining feelings you have left for your ex-bf.
Good girls not afraid no guys go after. 