let's just say there are many factors i.e. love, time, luck
but I would say the biggest factor is attitude. What is your
attitude towards relationship and moving on?
An example, I had a client who came to me for relationship
issue. She thought that dwelling in the negative was romantic just
like those Korean drama serials. The thought of undying love etc
... So I asked her how does she want me to help? Turned out
she didn't want to be "healed" but she wants a listening ear
bcos everyone else was sick and tired of her repeated stories.
Well, I gave her an hour and charged her the same for my time.