Getting played?

00king00 SG

i don't tink u shld take up this r/s, if u can't even tolerate her "loose" behaviour now, I doubt u can in future ==> she is not yr type

Rednano SG

i don't tink u shld take up this r/s, if u can't even tolerate her "loose" behaviour now, I doubt u can in future ==> she is not yr type

yup... had a few (too many) flings b4...

by the time u can bed her with commitment assured, her down there is already "loose" too.... for ur consumption...

gunner77 SG

How old are the 2 of you?

16? Still young, already so havoc.

21? All adults, can do whatever you all want.

30? CB, so old still do these kind of things.

40? These are things your kids might be doing. Not you.

CrabbyShaSha SG

i guess you're feeling confuse because you are not sure what you want?

and then along comes this girl who tells you you are special but is "friendly" and open to conquest.

Let me guess, you seldom chase after other girls?

Perhaps it might be a good thing to quiet down your mind and ask yourself what you truly want. There might be issues of insecurity that one may sometimes overlook and needs to be address before one can move on to settle down in a stable relationship. And tell yourself that it is ok to admire someone and not have your affections return. However a true relationship of course needs to be 2-way in order to be carried on as a true relationship.

And any relationship BASED on jealousy and insecurity is a sure recipe for disaster in future. If you cannot afford to get close to a girl whom you are not sure you are capable of loving and who cannot give you the security you need, I say curtail it and save yourself all that pointless agony. However, if you are sure that she is the girl for you, I say go all out for her regardless of the outcome.

Before that however, know what you truly want and do not want. There is a price to pay for everything.

CrabbyShaSha SG

Pardon me... in view of your thread title "Getting played?"...

are you trying to play around too?

As I've said, the only way out of this predicament is to be very sure of what you DO want and what you do NOT want. If there are behaviour which you would despise yourself in others, make sure you do not repeat them in your very own actions to those girls too.

Perhaps you may want to try date around, as in casual dating or meet-up with other girls instead of focussing on this girl who told you "im special to her". You may realize that there are more girls who are more special to you than her than you might have realized.

Once you've brushed up your social etiquette with girls by mixing around more, you may then start to truly prepped yourself for "The One". Perhaps the time has yet to come.

TalkToTheScreen SG

She's open-minded only. This open-mindedness will never change.

If you're feeling insecure now, then how about the future? It'll be worse.

dangerboi SG

Your relationship with her now are merely friends. I doubt it'll get any better if you two are together for you are already showing your inherent want of possesing her. In a nutshell, you will be possesive.

dangerboi SG

in addition, possesiveness turns people off, even animals.

Lorry` SG

ok ill just rughly sum up abt me and dis girl

we go out often and behave like couple, she told me that she is open and has many exflings but wans to get into a serious relationship nw, she told me that im special to her or whatever shit.

but on nat day, she went out with her friends to celebrate birthday for her friend, my guess is that many guys tried to hit on her that night through how she described to me the session.

in some pictures, she was pretty close with this guy, close as in hands around waist? i mean, i dont know what she calls me, her bf or whatever. but i find it offensive how come he has his arms around her waist?! come on, shoulder is okay but this?

then i asked her show me some other pics of the night, she dont want saying its too wild.

wtf?

I'd just tell you - that she's not for you.

Anyway, it's just posing for the camera.... if you cant even accept this.... next time you'd have trouble man.

de_middle SG

dun waste time....

Rednano SG

I'd just tell you - that she's not for you.

Anyway, it's just posing for the camera.... if you cant even accept this.... next time you'd have trouble man.

posing for camera is already a good "ka-you" for the guy to "chuan dao" already... smooth slurpy beancurd... nice treat girl... yummy

Sakuraflower SG

I think that she is not suitable for you. Because there are too many suspicion. You are going around in circle.

Find a nice girl and settle down. Unless you like this kind of relationship.

newcomer SG

wah u digger leh

Hanagata SG

also have not official attached to her yet... make so much noise for fug

Devil1976 SG

ok ill just rughly sum up abt me and dis girl

we go out often and behave like couple, she told me that she is open and has many exflings but wans to get into a serious relationship nw, she told me that im special to her or whatever shit.

but on nat day, she went out with her friends to celebrate birthday for her friend, my guess is that many guys tried to hit on her that night through how she described to me the session.

then i asked her show me some other pics of the night, she dont want saying its too wild.

wtf?

Some friends do hold waist and take photos.

If this one you can't take it liao, the others might also be 'offensive' to your eyes. I won't encourage her let you see too.

You're funny btw. If anything has to happen, you think she needs to take photos of them to 'show off' to you?

This is probably just her character... If you can't even accept this, I foresee both of you could have quite some trouble getting along in the future...

Hwaimeng SG

maybe its just 1 side thinking

and its belong to yrside

the gal all along never have feelign for u at all maybe she jsut think of u as her good buddy or watever but to u think that she consider u as a BF.

BadzMaro SG

Topic should be

'AM I THINKING TOO MUCH?'

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