Hrmm..
Not really harsh words, but seems quite hurting and
ironical at that time.
His buddy's grandma passed away in the same period when my
mother was in critical condition in hospital. Everyone came and
visited her except him; at that time I guessed I really need a
support, especially from him.
His words "My buddy's grandma passed away, it's very important
that I stayed with him for the entire wake, every single minute and
second. If you are telling me you need support like my buddy,
forget it. U want to know the reason why? It's because your mother
isn't dead yet, while my buddy's grandma has died already.
Comparing the two of u, obviously my buddy is feeling much more
pain than u are, so obviously he needs me around him every minute
and second."
It happened a year plus after we got together.
My reaction? - Maybe I am cruel? I lost the heart to carry on
with him the moment he told me those words. Even thou he came
personally to visit my mum after the wake thing and after my mum
has been discharged, but I already felt there was no point. From
that moment on, he was 'cut out' of my life forever.
really insensitive guy.
wah, u so na de qi fang de xia.
he no pester u or anything when u ask to break up?
