It has been ages since I post any topic (pai
seh, very, very busy with life and offline committment. Bontakun
will know
).
Just want to understand something from you forumers: which of
the following, based on
your own individual opinion - what would constitute
a behaviour that you deemed as cheating? I will rank the
following based on intensity, which means, if you cannot accept
option II, it automatically means you will not be able to accept
option III, IV and V. I have termed Option V, by default, as a
cheating behaviour and of course, if anyone can tolerate that,
please note with a reply.
The following options are:
I) Having private dinner with the opposite gender.
II) Hugging
III) Holding Hands
IV) Kissing
V) Sex
P.S: It would be good if you can explain the rationale of your
choice. No right or wrong answer - open for discussion based on
your opinion and what you believe in. 
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Total polled (1): laurence82
I - 0 (0%)
II - 0 (0%)
III- 0 (0%)
IV - 1 (100%)
V- 0 (0%)
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Cheers
i consider all of the above not cheating as long as the wife do not
find out