I always tot that I should be honest with my own feelings. Was
reading through some of the posts and decide to reply to all about
my tots.
Q: Is he/she ready to start a relationship?
A: It's up to the other party to give the other party the
confident to start a relationship. Not many will take up the
challange of going into a relationship with another person if
he/she doesn't give the kind of confidences that he/she is
reliable. I always believe that not only guys can take the
initiative. Gals too should be honest with their feelings. There
are times too when the guys dun feel secure.
Q: Do you ever confess or like let things take its natural
course?
A: Honestly I've tried this for a few years with my ex-gf. We
know each other for years and I've loved her for years. In the
end...the word "I love you" still have to come out before we held
hands. It's not just a confession for us but more like a
confirmation of our love for each other. Before a confession, it's
always like deep in heart we know that we like each other but
something is always missing and that pose a doubt in our heart if
what we felt is real.
Q: Can I handle rejections?
A: Honestly, I doubt many of us can handle rejections if we
truely love that person. It always hurt to know the person you love
doesn't love you. But look at things this way, if you don't ask,
you'll never get the answer and forever you'll be stuck with the
feelings for her until it fades of by itself (god knows when). But
if we take the courage to confess our feelings, even if it's a
rejections and we get hurt..that's it. Once and for all. Heal the
wound and move forward. At least with an answers, the road ahead is
clear. You know where you need to head.
