gals..have u met with a 'too good to be true' case?

Xiao tianshi SG

ya..if this guy is like everything u ever wish for, sensitive, thoughtful and romantic in every way imaginable, is he a playboy? or is there a possibility that he might be the real deal? pls share ur experiences! and is it ever true when a guy says (like in movies) ''i was a playboy, but u are the one and i want to settle down with u" oh my.cheesy.

I-like-flings(m) SG

mi that kind of guy lor.. but.. no gal believe mi....

elementalangel SG

kns see ur nick oso know u not that type of guy liao

I-like-flings(m) SG

kns see ur nick oso know u not that type of guy liao

v i am lah.. really.. trust mi gals... dun judge a person by his nick lah...

elementalangel SG

lol beware!! wolf in a sheep clothing up there ^
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dangerboi SG

This is a beginning of an interesting thread.

iwishiwilliwould SG

no harm trying out first. go out on dates like a friend and see what happens. who ever said a fairytale cant happen to you?

human beings are contridicting creatures. when the right one doesnt appear, we wonder why he doesnt. or when someone before us isnt really what u want we complain. when he finally does, we think its too good to be true.

Beautiful951 SG

How interesting it is.

eyeballl SG

haha if he's too good to be true, it means that you're in love. cos no guy can be too good to be true and you're clearly blinded by love. but, saying so, you should go ahead and into the relationship cos well, that's what your true feelings are.

rainee SG

Just be friends first and see how he fares.

parn SG

It doesn't matter really isn't it? All it matters is "DO YOU LIKE HIM?"

If you like him, you don't mind even you became his personal whore.

Playboy don't really exist, you can't be out-played unless you want to play.

But Playgirl does exist.

darkhour SG

lol i agree with iwishiwilliwould....no matter what ppl will always think the opposite as a human reaction kinda thing...to guard urself from any harm that might come by...as much as it is safe to think so, it is oso impt that u dun put too much thought into it, or else u might b thinking too much in everything n ruin a potentially good ending for urself...

oso as the rest haf said bah, juz b frens first then see how loh, sometimes our emotions cloud our judgement oso de...observe how he behaves in front of others, like when ur not arnd, n mayb get that info from others...then u can see what kinda person he is, whether he is truly what u think of him...if that cant ease ur worries, then the best thing is still to think less...afterall, even if u keep pondering over it, ntg is goin to come of it rite?juz makes urself more stressed=p

darkhour SG

It doesn't matter really isn't it? All it matters is "DO YOU LIKE HIM?"

If you like him, you don't mind even you became his personal whore.

Playboy don't really exist, you can't be out-played unless you want to play.

But Playgirl does exist.

wahh...u playgirl?lol...i dun reali agree with what u say though=p, some ppl juz follow their emotions too blindly...not that they wanna play to, juz that they r not strong enuf to pull themselves out of the situation what...n doesnt mean if she likes him then wuldnt mind being his personal whore what...sounds...crude sia lol

Cool-gal SG

too good to be true..

scary..

alfagal SG

player........

Nica_TW SG

U are right. It must fall in love deeply so feel he is too good go be true.

I had. He is too good to be true and I'm too stupid to identify clearly. Just learn the experience...I'm not the princess so prince won't happen to me.

But falling in love with those people who are just ur ideal is really good. Get hurt but experienced and learnt.

Devil1976 SG

Not confident enough? Don't go for it....

darkhour SG

U are right. It must fall in love deeply so feel he is too good go be true.

I had. He is too good to be true and I'm too stupid to identify clearly. Just learn the experience...I'm not the princess so prince won't happen to me.

But falling in love with those people who are just ur ideal is really good. Get hurt but experienced and learnt.

hmm...i wun say all cases oso mean the same bah....mayb u girls shld go watch or read the book "He's just not that into you"...interesting comments, but dun take all the advice in there coz its highly americanized, n not all comments shld b taken literally into singapore society=p...still if u think u always get urself attached for the wrong reasons...it shld b good to advise some guidelines on telling u how n when a guy isnt reali into u...

but...as i said...GUIDE...NOT follow whateva it says hor=p

Devil1976 SG

This is a beginning of an interesting thread.

Indeed....

parn SG

You're the first person to use this word on me, but anyway...girls who has the qualities to play should play. Not every girl can afford to play, how many girls do you think can afford to play? Same theory apply to guys also. It's a talent and a gift to you, if you don't use it, then you're just normal and destined to live a normal life.

It matters how much she likes him though...even as forumers in here, if we allow ourselves to interfere with other people's destiny, then we're no difference from the third-party in the relationship, as guilty as the third-party if our advice causes the separation and severing of the bonds of destiny between a couple in a relationship.

My rule of the thumb is not to interfere with other people's destiny...and that has always been the believe in my families. Interfering with other people's destiny will only bring about retribution and karma for yourselves which you will collect them when the time arrives. I want to live a good life and I have been living a good life and I want to keep it that way. How you want to live yours is entirely up to you.

Ohh....I'm straightforward and direct, but I don't think that's my negative traits. It has helped many people and also killed off many people...and also attracted many people.