You're the first person to use this word on me, but anyway...girls
who has the qualities to play should play. Not every girl can
afford to play, how many girls do you think can afford to play?
Same theory apply to guys also. It's a talent and a gift to you, if
you don't use it, then you're just normal and destined to live a
normal life.
It matters how much she likes him though...even as forumers in
here, if we allow ourselves to interfere with other people's
destiny, then we're no difference from the third-party in the
relationship, as guilty as the third-party if our advice causes the
separation and severing of the bonds of destiny between a couple in
a relationship.
My rule of the thumb is not to interfere with other people's
destiny...and that has always been the believe in my families.
Interfering with other people's destiny will only bring about
retribution and karma for yourselves which you will collect them
when the time arrives. I want to live a good life and I have been
living a good life and I want to keep it that way. How you want to
live yours is entirely up to you. 
Ohh....I'm straightforward and direct, but I don't think
that's my negative traits. It has helped many people and also
killed off many people...and also attracted many people.
?i was juz asking la not saying that ur one =x...n doesnt mean
that if u can, u shld...there is so much more to what u shld do
than what u can do...i can choose to play doesnt mean i haf
to...there r consequences to everything u do, n its what kind of
person u wan to become that decides what u shld or will do...a
talent can b used in more ways than one, n i feel that its always
better to use it in a way that no one gets hurt...
n yes as forumers, if we make irresponsible comments that cause
ppl to seperate, we wuld b at fault, yet at the same time, if we
were to keep quiet at something we could haf helped, we wuld b
guilty of not helping a person as well...i believe that we shldnt
tell her what she has to do, but suggestions on what other choices
n the pros n cons of each choice can still b given, as it wuld
still b her decision on whether she shld take up the suggestion or
leave it behind as juz a plain comment...
hmm...i believe that everyone's destiny crosses many others in
their whole lives, in a way or another u will affect others thru ur
comments, ur actions, ur words...the fact that ur living, will
interfere into another's destiny alrdy...i believe in helping if
possible...but of course, we haf to b confident of what we r sayin
as well as not to mislead others...any mistakes, said out can still
b discussed...if juz kept to ourselves, we will onli think in our
own way...
dun wry i dun think its negative either, being direct is good n
i like talkin to ppl who r more direct as its easier to talk things
out that way...
