Divorcee woman and single man

Melbournite SG

i know of two persons in this situation. The woman likes him, but he has no idea of it yet. They both work in the same office. But i happen to know her since she was my school mate and she told me. But for some reason she thinks it is not happening because she is a divorcee and he is an unmarried single man who has better choices out there. She is feeling depressed. Yr views?

charlize SG

Societal norms can sometimes be a pain in the arse, right?

Cliched answers will include, why bother about what other people think?

But we all know things are not as simple as ABC.

Life.

Is.

Tough.

RedizAlertz SG

Divorcee with a child?? If not, not too big of an issue lar. Has the man told her personally tat he doesnt like a divorcee?? If not, think so much for wat? She thinks too much for her own good liaoz, makin herself depressed for things tat has not even happen..shesss~!

mistyblue SG

your friend is over thinking a situation. Just stay friendly, besides, I would think a better reason is that there is a professional relationship at work that risks being affected if they become romantically linked.

BrUtUs SG

y need to get depressed? shes divorcee not a criminal... as long as shes his type sure got every chance... tell ur sch mate go make herself better or make the 1st move...

the Bear SG

if he likes her..

got to get past that first..

then after that, if he minds her status, what's the point of pursuing a non-existent relationship?

if he doesn't, what is the point of your topic?

aHGer^83 SG

i know of a woman, havent divorce.. but in the midst, hubby apprently dun want to do so, 3 kids, and already engaged to a single man. my meaning of engage is not yet ROM to this new bf of hers..

and this guy, he cannot accept her 3 kids lor...

angel7030 SG

Divorcee is common, if u are divorce, you are deem to be single again, why feels so awkward about it, it does not determine your social status, after divorcing, she is still a woman, a single and available.

If she loves a single man and find it diffcult to go for it, then ask her to look for married men.

gunner77 SG

LOVE IS BLIND

angel7030 SG

LOVE IS BLIND

Love is not Blind, you are blind.

iwishiwilliwould SG

we should just stop thinking about what others think and start thinking for ourselves. i do believe that if both parties are brave enough, it can happen.

Isis SG

Even if he really rejects her, it might not because of her divorcee statue.

Societal norms are crap sometime. Have the courage to follow your own heart.

Don't harbour regrets.