Don't forget to cry whenever you have reached your emotional
threshold, it is necessary cos it's the only way for you to unload
this emotional baggage you have been carrying for her.
Crying isn't a sign of weakness, we cry because we feel love for
others and it enables us to grow emotionally...and it's not
the same as aging naturally.
Is she taking up a huge percentage of your emotional life right
now? It is not healthy for you to allow her to take up a huge
percentage of your emotional life, and I'm sure you would've
realised this. Try to slowly reduce her stake in your emotional
life, be it 50% to 35% to 25% to 15% to 10% or even lesser. It
won't be difficult for you to do that because...everytime you had
to carry her emotional baggage, it doesn't makes you like her even
more...it just slowly kills off the love you had for her initially.
Perhaps right now she's is nothing more than an emotional burden to
you, do you think so?
Be there for her as a friend and care for her if you still
like her, no point in being there for her when you don't like her
anymore. And it's alright to let go when it's time for you
to leave. Because if you refused to let go of her because
of all the "true love" things you have been telling your
friends about, then you will only end up making yourselves
miserable and bitter and feeling worse than dying.
Love isn't about giving up and neither it is about holding on.
Love is all about giving and serving. Are you prepared to
embark down on this path of love? You might not find the
happiness that you seeked so badly at the end of the path, but
there is a chance that you will find happiness within yourself and
people will want to love you because they also wanted to
seek the happiness in you.
I won't tell you the really bad part after this...cos you will
find that your life will be meaningless.
