Why is he?

last SG · 2008-07-29T17:28:05+00:00

Jerk by nature too, just ignore him, he will get the message. Whenever he talks to you just act like you have no interest

White_SoulReaper SG

I have this friend, known him since primary school, close to him since sec 3... We quarell alot too... You see, he's very feminine type of guy...

After Os, he took his 6 months private diploma and waited for NS...

He's character is usually listen to others when they talk and be sensitive to how others feel... (some times) and he has a huge ego...

After he joined NS for a few months, he became a little manly... But he became insensitive to others, and is the most self-absorbed person I know... He got into medic and likes to brag about it... My sis is a nursing student, if she wasnt aware of a little information or something that medics know and nurses dont, he would say," that one also you dunno?"..

And when I SMS him, he never reply...

WTF right?

anyways, what's wrong with him? NS can make someone to become an ASS?

ChiBet SG

bang his ASS

banging people is my solution to everything

read my other posts

mamamamama SG

influenced by his peers inside NS la.. my friend also e same.. every sentence will have at least 3 vulgarities.. at least it made him more man right? lol..

White_SoulReaper SG

influenced by his peers inside NS la.. my friend also e same.. every sentence will have at least 3 vulgarities.. at least it made him more man right? lol..

even if he is more 'manly', it would be useless if he turns into a jerk...

ChiBet SG

even if he is more 'manly', it would be useless if he turns into a jerk...

???

being a jerk is better than being sissy

White_SoulReaper SG

???

being a jerk is better than being sissy

hell no... at least being a sissy he has a heart... being a jerk got what???

CenturionMBT SG

Its normal i guess. In NS, the culture is such that if you do anything that is wrong in the eyes of your peers, you will get humiliated. "Tio suan" in army lingo. So it just gets into a person after awhile, and you start to berate people who seem inferior to you without knowing it. And sometimes, you simply want to be alone during the weekends because you have been seeing so many people everyday, you just want to blank out. At least that is my case.

I do get insensitive to other peoples feelings. It is only when somebody told me about it that i realise I am being such an ass. But thankfully I am discharged from service, officially a free man. Wahaha

White_SoulReaper SG

should i tell him that he's acting like an ass?

ChiBet SG

hell no... at least being a sissy he has a heart... being a jerk got what???

maybe he is a jerk with a heart?

White_SoulReaper SG

maybe he is a jerk with a heart?

being a jerk got heart meh?

ChiBet SG

being a jerk got heart meh?

well, i consider myself a jerk but i still care about the people i am mean to

BangHong SG

people changes when they go into army.

White_SoulReaper SG

people changes when they go into army.

shouldnt they change to the better?

JasonC SG

shouldnt they change to the better?

That happens ONLY near, or after their ORD Date.

we're all still arses before that. :P

XxYaNxX SG

Tell him how you feel

shade343 SG

well, i consider myself a jerk but i still care about the people i am mean to

Thats being selfish. Not somebody with a heart.

White_SoulReaper SG

That happens ONLY near, or after their ORD Date.

we're all still arses before that. :P

hahaha... I hope so...

White_SoulReaper SG

Tell him how you feel

well, i am not that close to him... I dont want him to have the impression that i care for him...

XxYaNxX SG

Not close ?? .. then dont bother talk to him

gunner77 SG

since u are not close to him. then why are u bothering about him?