How not to be possessive

cApitaland SG

Any tips.

purpledragon84 SG

trust?

Daisuke-kun SG

mine!

Fs4751 SG

stay calm and cool...hehe

cApitaland SG

Ahh.. get jealous easily when I see her talking to other guys. Must be more mature in my thinking !

fairlady_xoxo SG

Its like learning to fly the kite...

purpledragon84 SG

Ahh.. get jealous easily when I see her talking to other guys. Must be more mature in my thinking !

wait.. is she ur gf already?

why do u get jealous that she talks to other guys..?

u scared other guys sweet-talk her issit?

when over-possessiveness occurs, only two possible reasons..

1. u don't trust her.

2. u don't have faith in yourself.

food for thought: how will u feel if she gets worked up everytime u talk to a girl? no matter how ugly the girl u talked to was? she's just irritated u are talking to a girl.. can u tolerate someone like that?

cApitaland SG

wait.. is she ur gf already?

why do u get jealous that she talks to other guys..?

u scared other guys sweet-talk her issit?

when over-possessiveness occurs, only two possible reasons..

1. u don't trust her.

2. u don't have faith in yourself.

erm wait. over possessiveness ? i dun think i reach that stage .. nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.

gotta think this through. thanks for the help :D

Karma88 SG

A pcc a day keeps possessiveness away .

00king00 SG

it's natural when u hav a crush on someone, cos u only want her for yrself

the best way to overcome it... make her yours

BeRt^.^ SG

'brand' her

Chyeo1979 SG

nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.

that's jealous, not possessive

wonderamazement SG

trust. 'nuff said.

ispyyy SG

Redirect yr focus to other things( like yr career, like some hobbies that both of u share, like blah blah)

maskedangel SG

IMO, its human nature.

for my case, i don wanna lose someone i like, but by doing so, and putting restriction on the other party, it made it worst.

What u can do is actually nothinh. juz swallow it all and like what others say, trust her.

purpledragon84 SG

erm wait. over possessiveness ? i dun think i reach that stage .. nope not my gf but someone i haf a crush on. hais.

gotta think this through. thanks for the help :D

and just go talk to her lo.. she single issit? if yes, of coz will talk to any guy that talks to her.. free speech leh lol..

at this point in time, when not steady, still crush, confirm will jealous one la.. coz u feel the urge to want to have her attention and stuff.. just don't overdo it haha..

maskedangel SG

be a pickup artist. . . song bo

Darrenchoo SG

someone told me relationships are like food. and jealousy is the chilli that spices up the relationship. sometimes its painful, but overall, it tastes good. if u really like the dish, u will bear with the spice. hope this helps?

RedizAlertz SG

To prevant possessiveness...one must have

1) Faith in the r'ship

2) Confident in ownself

3) Trust for ur partner.

But wait! She's not even urs? Then it's not possessive lar, it's simply jealousy. Anyway, being possessive is a best way to kill a r'ship.