y do couples quarrel for nothing?

last SG · 2008-07-23T10:32:30+00:00

There are many reasons...1) Couples may quarrel to attract attention...2) They have some bui gum in themself that cant vent it so choose small small little t...

Darrenchoo SG

have any of u experienced this with ur gf/bf?

quarrelling over the smallest of matters? like something that isnt even worth quarrelling about can snowball into shouting fits and cold wars?

if this happens constantly what does this mean? does it simply mean that one person has extremely bad temper? or does it mean that u dont love each other le? during courtship, the gal was like xiao mian yang (demure little sheep) then when become gf everything also wan to jump at u =(

FireIce SG

one party may think is nothing
the other party may think it's a big thing

and tts precisly why quarrel

Devil1976 SG

have any of u experienced this with ur gf/bf?

quarrelling over the smallest of matters? like something that isnt even worth quarrelling about can snowball into shouting fits and cold wars?

Hmm...

mistyblue SG

fifi is our best AA

BadzMaro SG

have any of u experienced this with ur gf/bf?

quarrelling over the smallest of matters? like something that isnt even worth quarrelling about can snowball into shouting fits and cold wars?

cause they know they got you by the balls already.

cuddles SG

the differences between mars and venus.

if everyone see things the same way, life would be monotonous won't it?

mother-of-pearl SG

Hmm, sometimes it happens…
Well, jus let each other have some peace n talk abt it after both calm down loh. Anger gets a conversation nowhere de.

Trust me, this method works .. at least it does when i on war with him…

Dun blame the problem, work out a solution together. ...

Gosu. SG

one party may think is nothing
the other party may think it's a big thing

and tts precisly why quarrel

She's right! You always have to act like it's a big thing even if it's not and persuade him/her that it's a small thing in the end and make out/up.

Gosu. SG

But my point is that you should try to know your spouse priortises AKA Be sensitive.

Fantagf SG

No quarrel no fun , so quarrel to have fun. ke ke hiak hiak, noisy noisy

rainee SG

Sometimes it just happened...

technoboy SG

Because one party loves the other too much?

That's what happened to me and we broke up.

reservistsianz SG

sometime they are angry over other things

but they show it on this one

Karma88 SG

Is such fights that makes a relationship stronger .

icyboiz SG

it happen all the time.. part n parcel

00king00 SG

i think such fights make r/s weaker , cos it highlights one fundamental prob ==>

both are stubborn.. a real 'connected' couple will be able to resolve such issues easily cos they understand each other so well that each will know when or how to compromise.

in contrast, when neither party is willing to giv in, that's when the disagreement escalates

N0body SG

Quarrel over small things is because humans tend to demand more from their loved one.

higher expectations and lower patience towards loved one.

this is human nature…

but deep in their hearts they still care for each other

T.Ryousuke SG

Care too much till no respect no trust and expect alot from the other.

Yohoro SG

Quarrel over small things is because humans tend to demand more from their loved one.

higher expectations and lower patience towards loved one.

this is human nature…

but deep in their hearts they still care for each other

Very true. SIgh.

vvclub SG

male thinks differently from females, we feel differently oso, so must quarrel to iron out these differences mah. But better quarrel during courtship otherwise the husband don't listen after marriage.