Just a jiejie?

Daisuke-kun SG

not me hor!

i is oso got sch-jie but no special feelings 1.

FusionWave SG

To burg: Yea i guess waiting should not be a a problem thanks.

To rain-coat: im a non-believer. =X haha. nyp.

To Evangel: i guess im. My ex said so.

Thx guys for the replies.

Karma88 SG

Move on .

There are many other girls out there .

Prophecy_Master SG

aiya this kind of wad god sister / brother all fake one la. i see it as an excuse to get close to someone.

aiya u just be her di di lor, sooner or later will have chance one la, i mean feelings grow over time, meanwhile don't behave like a didi in front of her lor.

instead of her for a penny for your thoughts, u ask her la, just reverse the "role" .

00king00 SG

she juz can't see u as a bf, might be due to various reasons, like not mature enough etc

feelings can't be forced, so juz relax and in the meantime keep yr options open, there are so many gd gals out there too

alexkim91 SG

or mayb she just sees u as her brother notin else..find some1 else lol

sinicker SG

once a jiejie, always a jiejie, my friend.

it's a dead end nia.

Daisuke-kun SG

ur nothing much to her lar.

i oso take my jie as a fren.

we're sisters XD

i'm labelled her meimei

playboy_1985 SG

how old is she?

BangHong SG

she made herself clear already ma...... -.-

Of cuz lots of people have same 'problem'... similar, maybe mei? LOL

Parthiban6 SG

Hi FusionWave, I was in your situation before. I too had a JieJie who was my collegue. She treated me as her bro b'cos she wanted to be close frens in that way and maybe also i kinda resemble her own bro in a way and I was also less than year younger than her. Anyway, I actually liked the "bro - sis" frenship we had as I was the only child at home. But eventually i started to develop feelings for her. And I tried what i could to stop having those feelings. Used to bang my head against the wall at times. This went on for a year while we were still frens. She sensed my feelings and wanted to distance away from me. At that time, I knew it was all going to end and cant even salvage frenship. I told her my feelings, she got terrified and that was all. My contact with her ended. It was actually a life turning event for me. It happened 3 years ago and until today, i blame myself for losing the frenship with such a nice person. I wished that no other guy shld fall into the situation i had but was saddened you are also facing this. I do wish she will change her feelings towards u but she might not. Follow wat the others said in this thread - keep your options open, get to know other girls and yr feelings for her will change and both of u can be good frens. Dont worry yrself too much buddy.

Hwaimeng SG

if like that i die liao (- -)

i have too many fake jie jie lliao ...

wonderamazement SG

what the phuck is up with this jie-di lian shiet these days...

your main reason for becoming her "didi" is to get close to her right.

popikachu SG

Loving someone is wishing for the others happiness...

Nikar 3 SG

the reason why these guys want to have didi-jiejie relationships is because they want to put their "di-di" into these girls and sow their seeds in them.

cool.

Daisuke-kun SG

what the phuck is up with this jie-di lian shiet these days...

your main reason for becoming her "didi" is to get close to her right.

true true.

but for me different.

is my jie call me meimei...

and she continued calling me that from taht day on =.=

i just have to accept..

i have alot of brothers & sisters liao =.=

parn SG

Hi folks, im new to this forum so i guess i'll just post the first one of my problem.

I am 17 this year and like all of u guys out there. i have someone i'm interested in. Just one small problem, she is my jiejie. Fake one. I always talked to her and we're really close frens.

It came to this stage that i made my feelings clear to her. She told me that she likes another guy and always sees me as her DiDi. She added that she wants to be there for me always and care and concern for me like a special sister.

I dont want this. I wan her instead. but i know i cant force this kinda thing. well to love a person is to let her be happy right?

well she is happy but i dont feel happy still.

Just to share my story. I believe many people have some similiar experience right?

FusionWave, what is more important to you? The happiness of your "sister" or your own happiness?

If you're a man, show her your love by supporting and respecting her decision in her life. Even if you can make her fall in love with you, do you think she will truly feel happiness when her life has been robbed by your selfish possessiveness?

However, if she has decided to love you on her own choice, wouldn't that tell you that this relationship is truly blessed?

If your own happiness is more important to you, then I would encourage you to let her go cos you will end up enslaving her for your own selfish possessiveness.

Don't feel terribly attracted to her cos she's the only female that gives you the most attention in this moment in your life. You will only end up destroying your current relationship with her.

BrUtUs SG

get ur sch work done 1st... so many trees arnd no need scare...

wonderamazement SG

true true.

but for me different.

is my jie call me meimei...

and she continued calling me that from taht day on =.=

i just have to accept..

i have alot of brothers & sisters liao =.=

lol brothers common la... meimei eh?

dumbdumb! SG

study la. dun regret not studying

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