Im 20 this year, and i only have one past relationship. My
friends assume im good with girls, having lots of relationships
when i only have one girlfriend in the past. Whenever new year
comes alone, and all the aunties ask me if i have a girlfriend, i
would say no and they would go dont be shy, dont be so humble. What
they do not know is that im actually very lonely inside, ive been
spending every christmas with guy friends and its frustrating. I
have trouble finding a girlfriend. Initially i thought that it was
my character, im too confident and arrogant always so full of
myself. There was once i chased a girl, and she ended up being with
this really ugly guy a total loser. her friends said things like i
look like a player, im a playboy, jerk and would play with her
feelings. Im not like that at all. Are girls like that,
disqualifying themselves if they think that the guy is too good to
be true.
I'm quite sure you didn't lose out in terms of looks if you
self-proclaimed to be good-looking, so you must have lost terribly
in terms of your attitude, behaviour, and mentality.
Arrogant is a terrible character-traits to own, nobody will
enjoy the company of an arrogant person.
Oh yah....one last thing, don't trust the aunties' opinions,
they are always encouraging and it's only polite for them to do so.
Trust your peers' opinions.
