Do you all agree with me?

angel7030 SG

when is life ever fair? some people born rich some are not.

yalor, some born handsome and beautiful, some born ugly and bad look, some born with big one, some born with small one...etc etc, talking about life is fair...bull

mistyblue SG

Then people who live in the past all should scream unfair loh.

nehpyh SG

Ts, you want so fair for what??

Imagine your girl looks like that guy's girl. And that assO looks like you.

Depending on whether you see the glass is half full or half empty, If the world is fair, you won't have an advantage over another...!!!!!

Learn how not to be the loser.

RedizAlertz SG

If everything is fair, then there is no challenge oready.

Life is nver fair, it's a test of our perspectives & our determinations. I have always said, "Humans are Versatile, we can adapt to any kind of situations & the power to change it."

Grass is always greener on the other side de lar..U see others good & lucky, magnifyin other's virtues thus diminishing own quality. If there is something good abt tat person, THERE MUST be something bad abt him/her too, jus tat we din know it.

4794 SG

thanks guys....i appreciate on what you all had said

will take time and ponder deeply

Cheers ^.^

ChoCoChips SG

I disagree.

It's fair.

We all die.

liddat den death is fair la.

haha

00king00 SG

no choice, tis the cruel fact of reality

xavier1979 SG

Agreed - Life is never fair. That's why you can work shorter hours than your peers and yet earn more than them.

angel7030 SG

Agreed - Life is never fair. That's why you can work shorter hours than your peers and yet earn more than them.

If life is fair, I will be a superstar liao.

Jezmeister SG

Get what you work for. If you think life's being unfair and blame the world you'll never win. 'nothing's changed and it never will, when you learn to swallow to defeat like a bitter pill'

angel7030 SG

Get what you work for. If you think life's being unfair and blame the world you'll never win. 'nothing's changed and it never will, when you learn to swallow to defeat like a bitter pill'

It is not blaming that life is unfair, life is indeed unfair, but the most important is that
by knowing that the life is unfair, you will not blame yourself on your life and carry on whatever you failed to create success in your life, understand.

Jezmeister SG

For life to be unfair you're requiring that some higher force has set things out for everyone, so no, I don't understand. You make your own luck, life will give you nothing because it's simply your existence - what you do with it is your choice. I don't believe that being born rich makes you any luckier than being born in a family of 10. Life is neither fair or unfair. It's your attitude that matters.

nehpyh SG

KungPaoChicken SG

Somehow. But its all your fault in the end.

Marco_85 SG

sometime working harder doesnt mean getting better results effectiveness of the work u do maybe questionable, maybe look at how u spend the time etc.. life is not about fairness its about how u make your time on earth worthwhile.

angel7030 SG

But given a fairer place of born, most likely you attitude will align to it, let say, you are born in a normal singaporean family, get educated, lead a normal life, hv a career, married, have childrens and live a good golden age to bid farewell to all. But if you born in a poor countries with a dictatory govt, the environment do not warrant you attitude, cos no matter how good your attitude is, you are doom cos you do not have the opportunity to excel, these are the peoples who would be saying life is unfair. Given these pple from the poor and controlled govt with education, i guess some can be doctor, lawyers or even great businessmen etc etc. So is life fair to them?

Anyway, we have different school of thought.

Jezmeister SG

You assume that your ideal way of life is everyones? I'm not saying people want to live under some tyrannical dictator but even then there must be ways to make it worthwhile, or why would people bother?

You take the hand you're dealt and you make what you can - some people will take a pack of cards and fold, others could take just seven and make a royal flush, some could take 2 jokers and bluff their way to the top, hell some could take a pack of cards and build a house - but the smallest gust of wind and it's gone.

It's what you do with it that matters not what you get. You work then the opportunities to reach your dream will come, is it unfair just cos you have to work a little harder? hell no. Most of the time it's better to have to work a little harder than the rest - if you win it's a hell of a lot sweeter, you lose it's not quite so bad. Generally it's passion that wins in the long run not pedigree. I'd be more proud of myself winning with 2 cards of nothing than given the choice of any cards I wanted.

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