NO one is born perfect without any guide from ppl. Dont feel
ashamed bcuz u need help. Everyone needs help and guide. BUt please
realise that ppl can only give u advice and guidance. The person
who made the decision is always u.
ITs a bad idea to think bout your ex if u are currently
attached. And its very unfair to your gf now if u suddenly wanna
break up with her for your own personal problems with ex. What u
can do is, learn to communicate and spend more time with ur gf now.
Just try to think that she really did all she could to be with u
cuz she really loves u. I believe u can see her action to prove her
love to u.
Dont feel bad bcuz u didnt give more actions than she did to u.
Just learn to love her more. One day u will realise in your heart
that the gf u have now is the one you really looking for. Its just
u never open your eyes WIDE enough to see how much love your
gf put in this r/s. Open your eyes 100 % wide to your gf, dont
share the % for your ex that u know she doesnt belong to u forever.
Yes, its FOREVER.
Everytime u see ur gf now, just remember what i told u. U
wil feel hard to discpline yourself to not think bout ex. Its ok. U
lose confidence to not think bout ex cuz u always fail to not think
bout her. DOnt try so hard to forget your ex. but instead
try VERY hard to use the time to spend more with your
gf.. Take her out , play some games, get u both very busy with
activities and concern her alot!
U did mention that your ex said you did hurt her alot, right?
BUt think it this way, u were still young back then. U didnt know
much or able to control your emotions perfectly. But bring it
to current, u know u cannot turn back time, but u can changed to be
better to your gf now. People changed for better only if they
realised what mistake they did and never to repeat the same mistake
again.
Just remember Life is Short, and how many ppl would love u the
way your gf or family would. Turn the negative past experience to
positive exp in future.
Just look DEEP in your gf eyes right now without saying
anything, u shall see the love in her eyes to u.. thats the one
you're looking for.
Ask yourself again if you're very lucky to have her in your arms
now.
One more thing that i need to remind u, when a gal share her
feelings of wanting to get married to the bf, it means she loves
him alot.. Please always think bout this.
If u have changed for better, please send me the advising
chargers to my bank. thank you. Its only 50,000 bucks
NO need to see your ex again.. if u really wan to concentrate on
your gf, dont see her again. If u realised, its not her wanted to
see u but its u who wanted to see her.. If u dont call her, she
wont call u either. Trust me. U called her bcuz u missed her, she
agreed to see u for drink bcuz she only think u as normal fren. She
is happy with her life, and you are so down with your life. Its
really not worth
