er i find that females always want to have the best of both
worlds, equality of gender + gentlemanliness.
do remember that the very notion of gentlemanliness is founded
on the fact that females are the weaker gender and deserve special
treatment. expecting gentlemen and gender equality to coexist is a
paradox.
but er, w.r.t. TS, try changing ur heartware, although do not
ignore the software and the hardware too.
U simply have to treat a gal as a lady to be a gentlemen, the
gentlemanship can only be betow upon you by a lady, if she find you
very gentle and behave as a man, you are a gentleman. But if you or
your own gender (gay) proclaimed you as gentleman, we will be
laughing.
As for gals taken as a weaker sex, that is a notion condone very
much to physical, not that we wanted it, for God/or
nature created it. But our mind can anytime equal our
opposite sex if not be ahead of them in certain
arenas.
Anyway, because of all these differences, the battle of the
sexes can never end, each will try to control one another if
opportunity strike, and thanks to our education orientated society
here, most of the sg gals are on same par with our guys if
not above them, that lead to so many sg guys getting
jealous, unable to face the equality of sexes, unable to show their
male egos and pride and finally unable to lead as head of a
family. Therefore, in conclusion, the only way out for them is to
look lower educated gals from the third or second world
countries gals from thailand, china, vietnam, malaysia, indonesia,
india, sri lankan..etc etc. And sad to say most never
find true love as these gals mostly only want money
in exchange for their body.