no la. shes a very nice person. but maybe she just doesnt feel
like she’s freeloading. maybe shes not aware of it. or maybe she
thinks we dont mind. ok maybe im stingy. i dont like to be so
calculative about money but it just bothers me.
good that you consider that she might not know that she's
offending you all.
whatever it is, it is always good to share lovingly.
sit down, in private so she won't feel embarrassed or feel like
u are out to humilate her. assure her of your friendship and
whatever you do is what you feel is best for her etc.