I think i have a problem communicating wif gals

last SG · 2008-06-16T20:19:38+00:00

i always say " hello sexy" to the female friends... some will like ignore the word sexy or some might play along with u, some might even get shy... for the n...

mistyblue SG

talk about homework/work , ask about what's going on with her life?

JerryYan SG

u can volunteer to do some social works

my 40 yrs old bro met his wife when he was doing social work at old folk's home

if u interested can pm me yr contact

jgho83 SG

Do you have sisters at home?

How do you usually talk with them?

Maybe just treat them (girls) like your guys friends and just talk normally as you do with your guy friends.

nehpyh SG

Hi TS,

Talking to people needs purpose. You chat cos you are interested to find out more about them, etc...

What is your objective of talking to them? What you quoted in your e.g. was the '5 sec elevator chat'

Demostration A:

You (10pm) : "Jia bah buay? "

Neighbour: " (seow gina, what time already...) Smile, jiak bah liao. "

You: (look at the lift buttons) smile...

[Tink, reach your landing riao.]

This is the infamous HDB 5-sec chat line. Use it to waste 5 sec of saliva. Add grunts or noise to vary the duration.

When talking with a purpose, you need to know what you wish to establish. Do you wish to waste time, date her out, build relationships, etc..??

You also need to asssess your 'opponent'. Dun ask stupid question. Make a smart assumption and let him/her affirm it or deny it.

For example:

You see your sweating neighbour in running attire.....

You: " Just came back from swmiming?"!!!

^%$^%&(^%&^% FAIL!

Instead,

You: " Just came back from gym/run?"

neighbour: " Yah, exercise feels so good!"

You: "Wow, what a sporty person you are,......"

The trick in striking up a conversation is, like playing racket games, you need to hit the ball to the opponent if you wish to rally. If you wish to cut short a conversation, you need to 'smash' or hit to the opposite direction of where she's running.

Hope this excerpt of Idiot's Guide to Chatting helps...

And stop looking at ther cleavage!!!!

JerryYan SG

Hi TS,

And stop looking at their cleavage!!!!

think only ppl like u then look at ger's cleavage

Agenda SG

The first sentence is always the hardest.

You just need to find a common topic to talk about and start off. Like a classmate, ask about assignment and all those.

After she reply you can start talking about your day to start her engine, trust me, girls can talk ALOT. You don't need to be very knowledgeable to talk to girl, just be humourous, upbeat and cool.

Just say stuffs you'll normally say to your friends, but try not to act like you've known her for 10 years. You should trial and error to find her softspot topic, goals are not scored everytime yeah? Poke fun at yourself, be confident of yourself, poke fun at her. What I like to do is to showoff a bit every now and then.

And just keep looking at her eyes, if she looks away, it's usually a good sign. Even myself, I'm prone to committing that mistake.

angel7030 SG

think only ppl like u then look at ger's cleavage

aunty, must look mah, see big or not mah, man got his preferences ok, and on the other hand, some are gays, hope he look at it properly before talking.

nehpyh SG

think only ppl like u then look at ger's cleavage

Jer...where got, I always respect gers one...those who met me will know :p

Some gers also look at boi's boi and start to fantasize what....

The whole point is, be sincere with talking to another....if sincerity means staring at boobs, then let the ger decide if that's acceptable lor....

I know some of my ger frens dun mind people looking...just dun touch!

angel7030 SG

Since you able to talk to guy, the next step is try to talk to Gay, train up your confident and train with the gay, then you are ready to talk to gal.

2cansam SG

lol @ talking to gays.

have balls when talking to girls. tell them something they won't expect to hear. but of course, dont go too overboard.

SBS594D SG

Just say hello and if she never say or dont reply, the forgot about it...

thehappybunny SG

Just say hello and if she never say or dont reply, the forgot about it...

advice from someone who probably has never gotten past a hello

angel7030 SG

lol @ talking to gays.

have balls when talking to girls. tell them something they won't expect to hear. but of course, dont go too overboard.

the problem is when he see gal, his balls drop on the floor...dong gong ...gong...gong...on the floor and start looking and searching for the balls

angel7030 SG

Just say hello and if she never say or dont reply, the forgot about it...

ya, after say hello, he run to the toilet and urine.

Midlusionz SG

If afraid to talk first.. Then eye contact? Wanna know more girls? Mix ard with ppl more?

angel7030 SG

Woei TS,

Dun make us gal sound like a vampire or a tiger that can swallow u up ya. If u got problem, go talk to yr mother, granny and sisters.

2cansam SG

Start going shopping occasionally.

Learn to cook ( most girls like men who cooks )

Learn to bake ( as mentioned above )

Pick up a social hobby ( Dancing, baking lessons etc )

For the extreme measure , switch to a job that has a even female:male ratio environment

angel7030 SG

Start going shopping occasionally.

Learn to cook ( most girls like men who cooks )

Learn to bake ( as mentioned above )

Pick up a social hobby ( Dancing, baking lessons etc )

For the extreme measure , switch to a job that has a even female:male ratio environment

Are u going to teach him to become a ladyman?? please lah, we gals dun need guys to do all these stuffs, just give us money, paid for our shopping and drive and accompany us to parties and functions will do.

Learn some hip hop dancing ya, and start to rock.

JJxJJ SG

complimenting on their appearance works for me

Evangel SG

Learn how to flirt a bit, but dont act like you are flirting too much.

Some girls like soccer also, they always look at who handsome, who not handsome haha...