ren yi shi feng ping lang jing...tui yi bu hai kuo tian
kong...
having a friend is definitely better than having an enemy, even
though in this case he is not needed at all. i suppose it would be
better for him to remain neutral, though slightly GL and XL,
towards you, rather than pissing him off altogether and make him
aim you.
from your first post i could tell you are the type who does not
really like to gossip about others, and rather keep all the bad
things to yourself. if there is a need for you to keep your
relationship with your GF healthy, you can just tell her about this
guy..
given his character, what he says about you, his credibility
would have been completely ruined. also, if your GF is discerning
enough, she would definitely understand. perhaps this might show as
a test of character in the face of adversity?
on a side note, im pretty confused about whether you are worried
that your relationship with other would be affected, or you are
just pissed off with that guy for bad-mouthing you.
just remember my first line ^^V
