Honestly, I do have some close girl-friends who are like A,B or
whatever letters.
From a mutual point of view, the romance part between me and the
letters have long disappeared because we know each other for a long
long time. It's not to the extend of hanging out every other week,
but maybe meet for dinner once a while?
and it didn't help when I spent 98% of my time with my ex and
she still gets jealous. it was to the extend where I never msg my
friends, never go out with them, all day with her, and when my
friends randomly msg me, it became my fault.
But that has past. I think I am not myself anymore which is not
the way. I have my guy buddies too and I hang out with them too
often she also jealous, say my guy buddy should get himself a gf
and such..
Sometimes the guy has locked his heart for you but you keep
squeezing it. Until he can't breathe. One fine day it'll all be
gone. He'll just unlock his heart and open himself again.
Like that cannot la. Doesn't mean that when you are in a
relationship, you should also not have a life outside.
I always encourage my dear to spend time with his other friends,
I would think it is freaky if he doesn't go out with anyone else
but me. Most of the time I am included in the outing as well, and
when I go out with my friends, I include him in as well. In this
way, we get to know each other's friends, get to spend time with
each other...both sides satisfied haha.
