my dad married this china bitch. she was the one who broke my
family apart. ive seen her ugliness since i was a kid. when my dad
bring my sis and i out on weekends, she'll call and bug him, make a
lot of noise, accuse him of being with my mom still even though he
was with us. she'll be damn loud and unreasonable with her
ramblings and my dad would quarrel with her over the phone both
sides screaming away while my sis and i would cower at the back
seat of the car, watching and not daring to make a sound.
later on they got married and i had to meet her whenever i
visited my dad. she was friendly and nice in front of us but i know
there are many things going on that we didnt know. it was just
a front she was putting on. so she worked with my dad in the
office. slowly, she brought over more and more of her family. first
it was her mom, then her sis and family, who were working for my
dad, then her dad.
in the mean time, she convinced my dad to buy property. it wasnt
in my dad's nature to invest so heavily as he has never done so all
the while before he met this bitch. she convinced him to buy a
merc. he even bought a unit at sentosa cove under the bitch's
mom's name! it just struck me as weird that my dad was owning
so much property. and he isnt making big money. im suspecting that
all these property would eventually land in the hands of these
chinese bastards.
so now they are living in this landed property. my dad, the
bitch, the bitch's mom. my grandma their children and 2 maids. this
old bitch(bitch's mom) is damn evil. she is very bad to my grandma
and the maids. she'll verbally abuse my grandma and the maids,
always scolding them and screaming at them. as though she was the
one owning the house. screw her la. if not for my dad would she
even be here? she'd order the maids around and once she even
slapped one of them! even my grandmother (dad's mom) doesnt do
that.she's like a bloody tyrant in the house. and everyone else,
including my dad and grandma would give in to her. they are the
ones compromising and listening to the old bitch. she stays on,
citing the reason that she has to look after their kids. what
bullshit. she doesnt do anything. its the maids looking after the
kids and all she does is sleep and go to church.
there will be conflicts and my dad being the peaceloving kind
would just give in to her. and my grandma too. that old bitch
disconnects the phone so my grandma cant call people. and my
grandma is bed ridden so she cannot defend herself.
that f old bitch doesnt give the maids enough to eat. for lunch,
there would just be the two old people and the maids at home. she
would disallow the maids to cook more than one dish. this is abuse
man. they eat only rice and one dish, which is usually vege call
that lunch. how is that enough?! and no one dares to stand up to
her.
that old bitch is f unreasonable. so shell make a lot of noise
saying we are the ones who are driving her away and keep
threatening to want to go home back to china. and to appease
matters, my grandma was asked to coax her to come back and live
with them ( she went away to stay with her other daughter after one
of the conflicts) like what nonsense is this. she is the one who is
in the wrong and we are the ones who are always giving in to her.
even my grandma is being bullied by her you know! and all she can
do is keep quiet and shou wei qu.
like what the hell and my grandma called me and told her over
the phone crying. and i dont know how to help you know. i feel
so helpless. i dont want to see my grandma suffer and get bullied
like that
screw those bloody china people. havent they done enough damage
to my family, to many other families, to many people's
ricebowls
From your post, I could imagine your frustrations and anger.
However, as this situation is actually caused by yours lovingly -
Dad, had you spoken to him privately as to what is he actually
going to do with the misery that your step mom has caused. I don't
for one single moment of your post what your dad is doing whilst
all these is taking place. Don't tell me he's that blind to all the
damages?
I do not think any amount of words and postings here will change
much to your situation unless your dad do something about this. I
cannot say much lest to offer my sympathy and a listening ear.
I think you will need to see if your dad has planned for his
retirement and departure, so please have a talk with him asap. I
think with such complicated relations I hope that he would be wise
enough to draft our a will to avoid the hassle of future
conflicts over property, businesses and assets.
Just my 2 cents worth.
