How not to be guai lan?

last SG · 2008-05-17T00:21:51+00:00

hmm , just try not to say anything stupid remarks . offend anyone . =D

4794 SG

Hi all,today my fren said something to me that really affect me a lot.....he said that many of my seconday school mates don like me cause the way i speak is guai lan....but i don talk to them at all and how they know whether i talk guai lan a not......i admit that i am quite a joker in the class and i like to tease my classmates but its just for the sake of fun and they will also tease me back.....

So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan

Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx

bcloud23b SG

maybe is ur cb face.

ShrodingersCat SG

next time if you got nothing nice or good to say, try not to talk loh.

angel7030 SG

lan guai guai good mah, why, u got problem with your lan?? wee boys will be boys

4794 SG

maybe is ur cb face.

wow,i see.....cb face huh?

LatecomerX SG

So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan

Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx

Take note of the way you tease your friends. It might have been offensive and you didn't realize it all along.

YuutoFlow SG

Mayb its nt ur fault mayb its ur friends fault ...

caleb_chiang SG

You don't talk at all?

4794 SG

Take note of the way you tease your friends. It might have been offensive and you didn't realize it all along.

Maybe...guess now i have to really think hard on what i am going to say to my frens

guaiboiboi SG

So now,how not to be guai lan cause i am in poly and had made new friends,i don wan them to think that i am guai lan

Any suggestion is greatly appreciated,thnx

then be a bad person be kind to people lo smile to them girl,boy also can eat.help people when people need help.donate to less fortunate people.

me_a_clone SG

when u talk, your body language is also very impt. dont swing here & there or speak loudly.. Try to minimise vulgarities in ur sentences. Dont act hero, dont act smart.

try to be humble. Do not provoke/joke unless u know where is thin line is.

just my 0.02 cents.

4794 SG

when u talk, your body language is also very impt. dont swing here & there or speak loudly.. Try to minimise vulgarities in ur sentences. Dont act hero, dont act smart.

try to be humble. Do not provoke/joke unless u know where is thin line is.

just my 0.02 cents.

i see,my sentence always start and end with vulgarities,my voice always been loud....what u mean by don act hero or don act smart?

magical_wen SG

sometimes,

jus shut ur mouth

seotiblizzard SG

If u cant say or think of 3 good things of a person.

Shut up and dun say something bad.

Cos its harder to say something good then something bad.

Zarks SG

no need to think la..

just ask them why dont like u.. then u said u hope u can change..

then u finally said. CB u all, dont like, dont like la..I know u jealous of my cb face

Miss Tiny SG

Some ppl said I got guai lan face cos I seldom smile, but they dunno my character well at all. Damnit.

But since they said that the way u spoke is guai lan, then maybe when u speak, u dun spare feelings for that person. Be more tactful, in other words, think before u speak, even if it's meant to be a joke.

It may be a joke to u but ppl may think otherwise.

Hanagata SG

diam diam let pple eat roh...

dumbdumb! SG

the only way to be guai lan is to be sarcastic lor. think b4 u talk?

gunner77 SG

be more sia lan

Yuki~! SG

Nothing nice to say, stfu, srsly