Hi everyone. okay, heres my story. I knew this gal for like 4
mths. Shes a good fren of my classmate. She took the initiative to
get to know me. (always wave to me in sch) Then she added me on
frenster, msn. Then we began chatting.(Sometimes she initiates
convos too. )After 2 months i began to develop feelings for her.
Then on the 3rd month, i got her no from my classmate, we began
smsing each other. We sms each other like about 40-50 msgs per day.
Sometimes i will call her too. But i asked her out thrice, she had
excuses. I thought she was playing hard to get. But last wk, i dno
why, i went to confess to her via sms during our usual chats. She
thought i was kidding, but eventually she say we would be better as
good frens. I ask her isit she dont feel the same way, she say
yea& tell me maybe i shld give up. Because from my past basic
experience, i thought it might work out. But even after my failed
confession, we still chatted as good as last time. Finally, i
thought maybe because all the while i did not take effort to
approach her more when face to face. ( at most hi & 5 min chat)
And I didnt make the effort to make her gan dong. Can anyone give
me opinions on this situation?