I really appreciate for all the views that have
been contributed. To put the matter straight;
1. NO. I'm not a gambler. I don't even buy 4D nor Toto. Neither
do I speculate in stocks anymore. All my savings are in cold
hard cash sitting in the bank or funds. The only vice I have
is smoking and I don't even drink. How much more could I have
spent?
2. I'm not exaggerating about my income. Infact, I make more
than that. I was only down-playing the numbers for fear of being
branded as exaggerating. If anyone can help me secure a housing
loan, I don't mind showing him/her my past 3 years income tax
assessment.
3. With my income level, I have already hit the HDB income
ceiling. I am no longer qualified to buy a new or resale flat. By
renting a place right now, doesn't mean I shouldn't plan to
own one. Some said that I should save up enough to buy one. Taking
a loan doesn't neccessarily means
"using-other-peoples'-money". Have you ever calculated how
long you need to save before you have $600K to buy a decent condo?
How many people can afford to pay off a condo using cold hard cash?
Even if you do, doing a proper investment would probably make more
sense than paying all upfront. And as to compare paying rental
every month to paying for the loan you made for your own housing,
which do you think makes more sense?
4. Though I have savings, they are just insufficient to buy a
condo off in cold hard cash. I'm not that rich. How much can I save
within a year after my discharge? I still need to pay for my car
rental, housing rental, etc. BTW, my car isn't a luxury item.
It's a tool of trade.
5. Having a credit card doesn't mean that I'm being flashy or
trying to show off. Neither does it mean that I do not know how to
manage my money when I'm applying for a card after 1 year of
discharge. People close enough to me roughly knows how much I
earn.
When you are on a business trip, have you tried checking into
a hotel without a credit card? Imagine having to stay in a 5 star
hotel (dictated by company) for 2 weeks, you have to pay all these
off in CASH! Do you bring that much cash with you when you travel?
And the matter of fact is I have to travel frequently. And NO, I
got declined even for a debit card application. How can it
work even if I have collateral?
Do you realise how much convenience you get if you do use a
credit card wisely? What Bleuwhale mentioned does hold
water. I'm sure all the card holders out there
got some benefits from their credit card in 1 way or
another?
Have you tried buying something online and you can only pay
via credit card? Have you tried making a reservation for hotel
rooms or air-ticket without a credit card? Imagine bringing your
client out for a $800 dinner and paying it up in
cash, what would your client think? I'll not go into
that..... The bottom line is, I need it as a tool of trade though I
can still make do without it. Well, this ain't that important. I
can still live without it. Nothing to cry over. BTW, not all
companies issue corporate cards, and definitely not to every single
employee. Viciouskitty74 made a good point about the corp card
thingy. However, normally, you are not expected to use your
corporate cards for personal expenses though you are liable to the
charges.
6. Money management. I may have done delinquent trading in the
past, when I was young in my early 20s. That doesn't mean I don't
have any money management abilities now. I have learnt my lesson
well enough from the distress/pain I got. Also, having faulted when
I was young doesn't mean nothing. I'll not go
further into this detail..... It's a very subjective view for
individuals.
Lastly.... please don't get into flaming session over this
issue. :p I was only sharing out my problem, and hoping to see if
someone else has gone through the same thing and could share with
me how they got out of the situation rather than waiting.....
And of course, hoping that a banker sees this and a decides
to help me out. Hahahaha.......