i don't understand......who cares if you're fat?
as long as you're happy, can liao mah!
and what's wrong with staying at home and playing computer
games? i think that's special, considering that most of the girls
in SG do nothing but to hang around in bugis so much that they can
tell you how many tiles are there in bugis area's floor. KNS.
true confidence and esteem does not require you to be slim.
there's so many pretty and slim chicks and XMM in SG and they still
behave in such an insecure manner.
you should read some self-help books, get to know people (even a
few would do), and do some exercise.
the exercise should be for losing weight and being healthy, not
really to give you confidence.
because in later years, obesity will give you health
problems.
anyway, how old are you? when you go out to work in future,
people won't really care that much about your looks....i see office
everywhere got so many ugly people, who cares? in working world,
the only thing you need is sincerity towards others.
the rest will take care of themselves.
in school (poly etc.), people tend to group themselves into
cliques and criticse and make fun of fat people.....actually, they
don't really mean it, but a lot of them are doing it to show off to
their friends, boost their own self esteem, or to get "accepted" by
others......
do you seriously think real friends will judge you for your
looks? if they do, then fark them!!!! these are not your
friends.
having no friends is no big-deal either.
a lot of people in these forums are friendless as well.
the ultimate peak of attainment and achievement is when you can
actually carry yourself well and live life happily even if nobody
friends you.
if you can do that, you've conquered everything.
you should make a plan (write in notebook) on how to improve
yourself and where you wanna see yourself 5 years down the
road.
anyway, most important is still character lah......
i'm a good looking guy (although very petite and skinny), and if
got 2 girls whom i have to choose to be my friend, and one is a hot
chick with rotten character and the other is a fat chick with an
angel's heart, i would definitely choose the fat chick to be my
friend.
looks is not as important as you think it is......it's important
to you cos' u lack self-esteem.
girls with looks are good for farking, though.
u seriously want to be in that category?
*PS*: what you should do now is to wait for Ninja Gaiden 2 to be
release in June 08, then you buy the game and we play together.
it's a very fun game to vent your frustration also....but must have
xBox 360.
