It has been a long time since I hit the forums. I usually
do that only when I feel extreme loneliness.
Today, I found out my exbf has found a new girl. It has been
almost half a year since we broke up, but I cant seem to get over
him. We were together for more than two years. As I type this,
tears cant stop flowing down my cheeks. Everyday I am kept busy
with school and outing with friends. But everything I do seems to
remind me of him. I still yearn for him to come back to me. I
always thought there will be a chance, but now, I feel so crushed.
So depressed.
I hate this feeling. I am scared.
Albeit it has
been almost half a year, you have not moved an inch.
You merely delay resolving the
outcome until a later date.
Now that that second verdict is
out (first is when the both of you broke up), it seemed that you
have reiterated this crisis a second time, like rewinding the
entire episode once again within your psyche.
Then problem doesn't lies with
the time that has passively passed you by; rather, it's the
inability to accept your situation that is causing you great
misery.
You have two choices: to continue
with denial tactics or to dissolve this pain through higher
understanding.
Until the day you become gain
acceptance, only then, recovery can begin its work.
Cheers
