how would u know when its the right time to confess?

dracas SG · 2008-03-28T12:00:41+00:00

if u r talking of confessing something wrong tht u did,dnt do it.yes I know couples are supposed to be honest.But doesn't work. if its tht u like a girl and...

dracas SG

how would u know when its the right time to confess to a girl? By sensing all the positive signals and mutual attractions? WHat kind of methods would u use? I prefer face to face..more sincere. but abit scared.

Guardx SG

confess what?

deathscythe99 SG

I suppose it's to confess to girl that TS likes...?

VL SG

First of april.

Confess to the girl u like through sms.

If she say she have feeling for then .... =] ( u know what to do)

If she reply something else, tell her that u are just kidding and it's april fool.

Haha.

sEphIrOth SG

what if she agrees on april 1st, then 2nd april she said she fooled u?

magical_wen SG

be sure she'll agree b4 asking lor..

if not veri paiseh one le..

CannyOng SG

By having all yr hint return positively.

Have u ask her the choice of partner, criteria, requirement? Do u fit in??? (She might exaggerate a bit)

Have u have any outing with her? Does she enjoy yr presence and the outing u organise for her?

Have u ask her opinion of u? Positive?

Have u ask her ready for a r/s? Is she ready to accept r/s now, her priority??

Do u have a certain understanding of her history?

Do u always have mutual understanding and great communication?

fairlady_xoxo SG

Feeling ~

CannyOng SG

Feeling ~

Not neccessary.. Something it maybe just one side affection of you!

fairlady_xoxo SG

For me its more of intuition...but more than half go by feelings so =/

Either way...there would be some obvious signs if you know if the girl / guy has affirmed his / her liking to you.

Gedanken SG

Confess? How did you screw up?

ghast. SG

confess when you really feel very very strongly for her and that BOTH of u will be happy tgt and under the confirmed status of gf/bf.

小白脸 SG

once you confess, you may lose everything

ifish SG

when she is happy..

when ur bro is not awake..

when u dont stink..

when she not wearing the pad

after u brush teeth..

after a big fat meal..

after ur wallet got money..

after ur mummy approve of u having a gf

after her mummy approve of her having sex

aiya... so many things to take note.. might as well ignore all of them and do it rite? at most a NO only.

Guardx SG

humm lets assume that the TS is asking a girl to be his gf.

Confession are never easy, it takes courage, some did it so many times until it does not any meaning. For you it maybe something new.

You do it when you feel is time. No one can say when is the right time for anyone cos everyone is different. Real man face confession in the face and tell their would be gf that they really want the relationship to work. Real man face rejection positively and are willing to learn from it.

Statics from gals show that they would rather accept a guy who had the guts to tell them that they love them face to face, rather then hide behind someone or something.

Wai Leng SG

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VL SG

u will scare the girl off . Too sudden , not sincere.

What if she doesn't even feel it and u ask those question suddenly?

popikachu SG

You will know it when time comes...

If that time never comes, it means you are not ready for relationships...

Cheers

guaiboiboi SG

when the feeling is right and the ambience is there and you have the money! well then just face to face.Just be more brave,and say it sincere and really mean it then girl will fall in love with u le.

HolyGorilla SG

i got no experience...

but i think this would be good...

if u are communicating well with her, and she allows u to like touch her hair or something like that...

and she like dun mind u 2 going out alone together outside..

dun mind going to ur house alone, ( that is if she cant go, she will give very very valid and true reason)

then i think its the time...

start by saying that, "today i look good?"

"today u look so attractive.."

or something lidat... then u pop up the question, just one thing to be sure... no matter wat, especially when poping the question, look into her eye sincerely... naturally...

if it is a positive ans... it will be so romantic.....

if not, u will be like so man... be sure to confirm ur friendship with her if she ever reject u...

btw i no experience de... just seeing things from everywhere and then combine them up... heehee

Cheers