Haiz....Bro, we are all in the same boat. We all felt the same
for you.
What ever is it, it is just a test. It is a test of character,
thus dun give up so easily.
My wife left me with my kid in tow.....what worse can that
be....I had only myself to blame. No one else can take the rap but
me. I am not trying to say that my prob is gravier than yours, but
I just want to tell you that there are people facing the same
problem as you. For your info, my wife had left me for a year.
Similar to ur ex, my wife spoke to me with a cold tone,
laid with much sarcasm on it at all times. I cannot
argue the fact that i am very frustrated about this, but there is
nothing i can do to change it. What is done is done.
Well, we all learn from our mistakes and hopefully to progress
forward in the future. Sometimes, we still make the same mistakes,
thats human nature. But what is important is that we must
learn and push on, trying to minimize the same mistakes.
{(Woman)}
At times, i do not understand how can a woman possess so much
power to change a man's mind. Well, as you had experience, she had
drag you down much to the pit of malice. Learn, and understand why
she left you. Feel, knowing this feeling allows you not to repeat
the mistake you make.
Straight to the point, all i can say, chin up soldier, there got
to be someone out there for you. Someone who can understand you,
Someone who can bring your trust into her heart and someone who can
be there when you need her most.
{(Friends)}
I just had a big argument with a couple of my best friends over
some very trivial matters. Haiz, once again, i overlook the
pettiness in this situation, thus blowing a small matter into
millions of debris. Now they are ignoring me.......Hiaz, what am i
goin to do? TS, i feel sad but i am telling myself, there got to be
a way to handle the delicate matter. As for you, look around you.
What have you done to deserve so little respect from your
friends??
Not wanting to bore you, allow me to end this reply by repeating
myself again, Dun give up searching for hope, there got to be hope
some where out there. It may take days, weeks, months or even years
to find the one you love. It may take a big man's heart
to say sorry to a person, but it pays big.
Kudo's to you for admitting your problem, least i know
that after reading all the replies from the kind public
to your topic, i got the slight tingling feeling that you
are ready and prepared to rebuild the very foundations to
your life again.
Feel free to PM me if you feel like. I will be gadly to
help you if i can.....
