Hi, finally i have broken up with my GF but, i still cant
forget her even though i intiated the breakup. I have been
struggling with myself for 2 months. Trying to study but find
myself thinking of the past. Try calling her as friend but she is
giving me the cold shoulder. I just want to be friends but she is
not willing to. I need help I have been having insomia for 2
months and have been on pills but i cannot seem to get over it.
Hi TS, just share something with you.
Firstly it is very normal for you to feel sad and a sense of
lost since she's someone close to you. 2 months is a short
time and you will probably take some more time to get over her. In
order not to think of her, you must have some new direction in life
like finding another new girl. Although this sounds like a "jerk",
but hey, you wanted to breakup and you had done so. So, you should
move on.
Also, since you had initiated the breakup, no doubt she will
feel much much worse than you. You shouldn't even be calling her.
Everytime she sees your sms or hear your voice, she will feel sad.
It is difficult but do spare a thought for her.
But if you really wanna be back with her, just tell her you
wanna get back with her and see if you get a chance. Being a friend
with her at this stage is extremely difficult and hurting for the
both of you.