This is going to be harsh, but here goes.
Loving him, is like loving AIDS.
Ask yourself, what good has he done for YOU? From what I saw in
your relationship with him, your were giving, and he was taking.
There was no balance. Imagine the type of life he could put you
through.
If you stick by him, its going to be unhealthy for you. You said
you wanted to start afresh upon the start of poly, if you really
mean it, leave him behind, whatever it takes. It won't be easy, but
it's whats best for you.
And heres something else, upon breaking up, he cried? He was
taking you for granted all the while. How do you know it won't
happen again?
Think about it, Yuki.
Ok, bunny. I'm still thinking about it.