Between me and my gf, quarrels actually make our love
stronger.
When we have disagreement, we take time out first.
Then we agree that we will both work to find a solution
beneficial to both of us.
Then we come clean with what is bothering us inside our
hearts.
Then we ask each other what do each of us expect from each
other.
Then we will work towards the solution.
Usually by this time, we are both rational again. So when the
solution comes about, we realize our love has just gotten
stronger.
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Hope this helps.
what do you argue about?
little things like where to go eat or things like your future,
marriage issues