You sound like the male version of myself -.-"
My friends don't believe it when i say i haven't had an official
relationship before, and this part is especially true:
But the thing is I find it
hard to show concern to the girl Im interested in. I tend to act
nonchalant in front of her while I shower attention on girls
Im not interested in. This is probably to dispel rumours. I really
ought to kill myself for doing that.
I tend to accidentally make guys
i'm not interested in fall for me, while i can't talk to those i
really like. I say go ahead and try to sit right next to her during
lunch (not too obviously though, you don't want to freak her out or
come across as too strong and trying too hard) if there's a space
by her. Then.. just say hi and see if it goes anywhere. make eye
contact but don't hold it too long, that's damn creepy, whether
you're hot or not. If she talks to you coldly from the first
sentence, ABORT THE CONVERSATION. There could be two reasons for
this; 1. she has no interest what so ever, 2. she's another
person like us. -_-
If the reason is number 2, she'll likely feel bad about it and
make up for it another time when she gets more confident. If it's
number 1, you should change your target.
GOD, my reply is way too long. I'M SORRY!!!!!