Here’s some of
the description I find most apt from urban dictionary, I’ve modify
them so that it can be used to describe both the male and female
player: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=player
Someone who is skilled at
manipulating ("playing") others, and especially at seducing
men/women by pretending to care about them, when in reality they
are only interested in sex/other gains.
A man or woman that hooks up
with many different persons but commits to none and in that process
ends up hurting some of those involved.
Female or male who has several
long term aka " I love you" relationships and tricks each into
thinking he/she is the one
This is for the female
readers:
A man who seduces to make them
think that they are the love of their life. Once the she falls for
him, he casually asks her out on a date. When describing the date
to her he will make it sound very romantic. E.g. picnic on a beach,
dinner and a movie, etc. The woman will meet the man and soon find
out plans have changed. For some reason the man wants to stay at
home. Since the woman likes the man so much she will not think
twice about it. She will soon find out that the man only wants to
be sexually with her and couldn't give a damn about her, her life,
or her personality. But the woman will give into the man, feeling
that being physical will make their relationship stronger. When, in
reality, the man has no intention of even talking to the woman
after that night! The sad thing is that women who gets played
usually goes back to the man, thinking, hoping, that there will be
a relationship soon to come. But players are just complete
assholes. They're manipulating and the only "feelings" they have
are in the pants. AVOID THEM AT ALL COSTS!!
A person who starts out using a
devilish charm on a partner of their choosing. They then act caring
yet eventually create other romantic involvements with other
males/females. They typically lie quite often, not only about their
other relationships, but about themselves, their daily lives, and
false promises. Their behavior can be linked to their actual love
for one that does not love them equally.
A self centered person who has no heart that would tell a guy/girl
she/he loves him/her but just lies and goes out with another
guy/girl right after that.
