shazzter, sorry if my contribution here sounded condescending to
you here. I am just stating as a matter of fact from another
perspective.
I think sometimes we need to realize that not all outcome can be
expected and there is no way to control them as well. As you are
aware and would not want sympathy to be the reason here but you and
I will know and understand that we cannot really anticipate how the
other party may look at it.
IMHO, there is no way to avoid what is to come. If you have
accepted her then just be prepared for what is to come from the
box. "Life is like a box of chocolates." Does this sound
familiar to you?
i understand what u mean .... i guess im getting confuse myself
as for what to happen .... been hearing words from my fren .... but
in the end i guess its really up to me ....
and about the box of chocolate ... yeah heard to many times
i guess im too jugdemental ...
anyway thanks for ur contribution of thoughts ^^
i think i kinda like this forum ^^