via msn
i think via msn is not a good way to confess... cos u have not seen
the guy and do not know his body language. Or perhaps you've not
seen the guy for quite some time, he may have "shift target".
Instead, it would be better if u meet up the guy, while both of
u are chatting happily and having a great time, drop some hints. If
he responds positively, drop more hints, let some silence go by,
and see if he would take up from there.
On the other hand, i firmly believe that the relationship is not
meant to be if it goes down the drain like this. There may be a
number of reasons. Perhaps u were too insecure, pondered too long
and the guy has moved on. Perhaps the guy has some issues himself,
opened up to you and then just did a houdini magic disappearing
trick. Whatever it is, pick yourself up. Know that you deserved to
be in a relationship where both parties adore each other. There's
nothing wrong with being cautious, and with each relationship you
go through, you gain experience.
Gal, you gotta be more confident of yourself. Maybe start by
living up your life happily as a single? You won't pine so much for
a relationship then. And then when love strikes, you were too busy
living ur life to realize when it hit you, because you are not
pining your life away for it.
Realise what you are. Do not be hungering for a relationship.
Realise that getting stuck an unsatisfactory relationship
will bring more misery than joy. Be thankful that the two
guys have left you. The nerds will not will not leave you but stick
with you and ruin your life.
mancha is so right. Be thankful that they left you cos they
might not have been suitable in the first place. Look forward.
Maybe god wants you to meet a better someone.
