My current gf is divorced & had a 5 yr daughter.
Q for guys
o guys mind that
their spouse is a divorcee wif kid?
Personally i dun mind the buy 1 get 1 free issue as her daughter do
get along well wif mi. Everi1 has a past.
The BIG problem is, hw do i break the news to my parents if we are
to get married? Im the eldest son together wif a younger sis.
jianjian23,
Having a good rapport with her daughter is a very important
step. Without her daughter's approval, the relationship will be a
very difficult one.
You being the ONLY SON, will pose some problem with your
parent.
Surely they'd want to have their own BIOLOGICAL grandchild from
you.
Talk to your beau if she plan to have any of your offsprings. If
YES, then you should let your parents know of this, VERY
IMPORTANT.
Another thing is, how is she doing financially ? If she is
looking for a meal ticket, your parents WILL NOT like it.
So brag about her achievements and her background (if any), your
parents need to know she is not out to take advantage of you.
DO NOT expect your parents to treat her daughter as their own
grandchild. Accept the fact that, your parents will favor your own
child. So, as long as you can understand this, you will not have
conflict with the difference in treatment later.
Remember, it is not their responsibility to "accept" her just
because you are in love with her. It is YOUR duty to "help" your
parents accept her.
Most important, you must be happy.
