Hi.pls help if possible
In school,i like this one gal.She told mi she liked mi before
and i was like YAY..She gave mi alot of promises,Like 21 years old
she wan to be my wife.We start to hangout in school.More of a
puppy love.We were sec4 at that time.
About 2 weeks later, She told mi she had to concentrate for her
Ns lvl and ask mi to give her time.I did wad she told mi.
2 months after Ns level, she told mi she had to concentrate for
her Os level and ask mi give her time.i was reluctant but give in
again.After Os level, i tried to hint her about it. She act
blurred.Jus recently i msg her and ask her directly,the message is
'do u still liked me?' she reply,'sry to tell you that,the feel for
you is no longer there'.i was like WTF~All the promises were broken
just by that 1 sentences.i started to lose faith on r/s.i m emo-ing
all the time.
can anyone help mi to forget her.(practical and fastest
way).
Dear ben10,
In the 1st place don't you think that the both of you are being
impractical and immature to be seriously contemplating a r/s that
will lead to marriage. In all, if you can look at a different
angle, don't you think that it is too early for the both of
you?
What do you think is your current responsibility? Studies?
Learining about yourself and loving every minute of it? Build up
your character? Plan your academic path? Aim for your career? What
about responsibilties to your parents? They cannot be supporting
you all the way, you know? Look around you, what do you think you
need if you were going to start a family with her at the age of 21?
(Had she not broke off with you.)
I hope that you will drop the idea of a r/s and/or brood over
this episode and concentrate on what I have mentioned above. Making
your parents happy would be tough enough and preoccupy you for
now.
Just my 2 cents worth.
