why you dont go out with your friends ah?

bladez87 SG

everytime my mom asks me that, i donno how to answer.

mainly cause nobody ever asks me out. thats why i dont go out. but then again even if someone asks me out, i also donno if i will go. go out liao not go some cafe and talk means just wandering around aimlessly.

something is wrong with my social life. and i donno how to remedy it...sigh...feels like i have no friends sia.

Hello Kitty SG

u can try go fer outings.

kakaka.

cApitaland SG

cool. does your mum give you money to spend as well outside or do you have to take care of that yourself.

rlsh07 SG

everytime my mom asks me that, i donno how to answer.

something is wrong with my social life. and i donno how to remedy it...sigh...feels like i have no friends sia.

come come come to sc outings. we have many activties though. come come

fairlady_xoxo SG

Maybe your mum was afraid that you have not enough social life? =)

rlsh07 SG

Maybe your mum was afraid that you have not enough social life? =)

yeah lo. because my mum used to ask mi that too.

Maith SG

nobody ask u go out,u dunno how to ask ppl to go out with u isit? Must wait for ppl to invite u?

rlsh07 SG

nobody ask u go out,u dunno how to ask ppl to go out with u isit? Must wait for ppl to invite u?

maybe he's just passive though

cApitaland SG

all the small people in all their own small cliques arh. den you left out isit?

bladez87 SG

i in NS ma...but since young i like this. zai nan ba XD

i passive. very passive. expenses settle myself. donno how sia. my social life cmi

cApitaland SG

call up yer old friends from secondary sku arh. or join an interest group. not veri healthy de stay at home everytime.

bladez87 SG

where to join interest group?

ultimatenolifer SG

Sometimes is because u and your friends dun have common interest bah. Like your fren like to go clubbing but u prefer to go library sort of thing. For me is because my old frens kind of have their own frens also so les meetups already. Anyone have any brilliant ideas on how to get a social life ? I also feel bored at home sometimes during weekends

lonely_boy_88 SG

ACtually i also dont go out much, not like everyday or wat la, but sometimes still go out with frens.

I dont go clubbing, I dont like to go clubbing, even though lots of my frens go.

I now in NS also.

lonely_boy_88 SG

thats why nowadays i turn to online games or computer games, watching movies to kill most of my weekends.

xavier1979 SG

Take up a hobby. Meet up with fellow hobbyists.

areusure SG

Do volunteer work. Go national volunteer websites.

knowing that u have made a difference in a paralysed, disabled or underprivilege who otherwise cannot enjoy even the most basic capability of a normal person...will not only enrich your life but also one day come back to you as the sweetest and most memorable memory

motoway SG

pick up a sport.
And start living. i dun see how u can dun haf a single fren aft say 10 odd yrs of schooling.

guaiboiboi SG

i also don't always go out glad to find ppl same with me but got go out la when my friend jio.it is fun to be with family and friends socialise mah! go out budget only lo alittle amount is ok ba? i also want to be indendpent learn to settle my money myself.

Don't always depend on mother,father.

FBI SG

sometimes a movie outing or sit at cafe talk is v hearwarming..

but spend money v fast =(