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felirox SG

I have this very very close friend of mine whom I treated her very well and she too treates me very well too. But howewer,one day this secret admirer of hers befriended her. Well they were very friendly towards each other. Plus sometimes my close friend talks abt him,how he's her cup of tea and stuffs like that. Then days past,I felt she wasnt the girl I knew. She kinda neglected me. I dont know if she realises that or maybe perhaps I was thinking too much. But now she rarely talks to me or call me but instead she called her secret admirer. I know she doesnt have the right to pay attention to me everyday. But even so,that secret admirer isnt her boyfriend. Is it because he has better looks? or $$$? or whatever?? I dont really care who she make friends or mingle with but I dont know why this guy somehow or somewhat threathens my friendship with her

rlsh07 SG

are u a guy or a girl?

felirox SG

Im a guy.

Guardx SG

She has grown up, but have you?

rlsh07 SG

well.. she is attracted to the guy perhaps. why would it jeopardizes your friendship with her? you guys are just friends or perhaps you have other feelings for her?

browniebaobao SG

maybe he's really her cup of tea lor.

Maith SG

eh brudder,just say u like her la,why very very close. And oso if u're jealous just say.. more hao ban shi...

ghast. SG

it's pretty obvious. she's interested in that guy. treats u just like a friend. that's all. she's got a limit too. hw can u expect her 2 focus on 2 pple.

Yuki~! SG

Uh does she know you have feelings for her?

felirox SG

Maybe I think I've got feelings for her. But im trying to deny it myself as I dont want more than that plus I dotn want to rui nthe friendship. But this guy seems to be like making our frendship drift apart.

CannyOng SG

If u want her to prioritise u over him. Make her yr gf.

Do not expect too much from a friend, even a special friend. Only when she becomes yr ger, u can dream more of what u want and expectation!

But as what u say, u do not want to jeopardise yr friendship. Weight it properly, find out more info of the guy and what makes him so attractive to yr friend?

kopiosatu SG

if she's just a friend, special or not.

why should u feel neglected.

u like her, then say la

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Friendship must maintain de... even if it slowly drift way, one of you must do something to it.

And communication is the most important thing in everything.. friendship.. BGR... etc..

Try communicating with her.. :)

xavier1979 SG

You're jealous, aren't you?

Zarks SG

Ohh. some1 is jealous..

aaaahahaha...

U like her la.. too bad u didnt realise that u actually really liked her.

if only normal good fren, you should feel happy for her , not jealous...

aaaahahaha...

w.eikaas SG

sort yourself out first. Do you like her? Do you want her to be your gf? Are you jealous? Then talk to her, let her know how you feel.

Goodluck