You are a bigot in that you think she is different and has to be
treated differently.
You are a cheat in that you think you need a way to cheat her
into having a good opinion of you.
You are a liar in that you are asking what lies to tell her to
get her interested in you.
You are a control freak in that you want to control her reaction
and make it positive towards you.
For goodness sake, please have conversations with girls and
find out if you like them and if the feeling is mutual.
Do not then stalk them from a distance,
fantasize yourself into some obsession and then come on
these forums demeaning the entire female population by asking for
advice on how to cheat, lie and control them.
