How do you hate someone?

angel7030 SG

To make frens is as simple as ABC,

But to make an enemy to be your fren, it is as hard as climbing everest. But if u succeed in making your enemy yr frens, you hv also succeed in removing hatre. And in such cases, usually the enemy that turn to fren are good fren, because both of you know your limit and respect each other thought and space.

abterror SG

What about the other way round. someone close whom had succeed removing friendship and choose to end all ties.

Making foes is as simple as XYZ~ lol

It is as hard as jumping down from everest. even if u have the guts. you probably wont live to tell ur friends about it~

blu_sky SG

It is always easier to be stubborn and 'zuan niu jiao jian' than to open your mind and listen to what others have to offer Idea

Isis SG

Ts,

U know... it isn't any cure to play the blaming game. It the same thing, blame yourself, blame others. Blame here.. blame there.. blame everywhere, anyone and everyone but in the end, cannot change a thing.

People are not perfect person and they always make mistakes. Be gentle to yourself too. Learn from your mistakes and you will grow wiser. After learning the mistakes, you must also learn to let go of the unnecessary sh!it that associated with it. There the key of learning too. Sometime, some people just love to carry there excessive baggage around. Worst, they love to climb uphill with there overload "bigger than life" backbag. If you want to go uphill or anywhere else, it is best to learn to throw away the unnecessary invisible baggage.

It is not healthy to hate someone. Hating someone is like hurting yourself and on the contary, it does not hurt others as much as it does to you. People often mistake anger and hatred as a form of self-defensive mechanism but it never was. Let go and stop resisting.. so that better things in life can flow into your life smoothly.

Daisuke-kun SG

My name is Ti, Seoti Cool

I hate no one.

alfagal SG

agreed....

abterror SG

Blaming is a act of self protect and ignorance.
But it sort of "protect the user from harm" > self blame etc

Isis SG

can. there are many options.

but

When you blame others, you give up your power to change.

abterror SG

Originally posted by Isis:

can. there are many options.

but

[b]When you blame others, you give up your power to change.

[/b]

Why is there a need to change?
Dun u face situation where ppl just push all the blames and walk happily away?
Isn't it cool? Esp when u need a scape goat.

Then u walk happily away leaving the other guy blurr blurr.
Xian xia Shou wei qiang.
The pointer will also look innocent, who knows a hero in other's eyes.

Isis SG

Cool? If u think so yeh.
I think i mention that u can do there if u want and u will be held responsible for the consequence of ur decision.

abterror SG

We cant stop ppl from attacking.
But we can strike before they do.
If assume ppl have bad intention for you, what consequences should you held?

You can choose to control or be controlled.
Xian fa zhi ren?

Cao cao has made this statement.
"I rather betray the nation than being betrayed by them"
Similarly, Kill 100 wrong ones rather than letting 1 right one go"

And when you see shows, the bad guys always look cool right? lol
Unless they are handcuff.

Isis SG

yeh u will still reap what u sow yeh.

Isis SG

There are many ways to go about it. You need to balance your integrity and the way u handle the manner in a mature way. Being mature is also about owning your responsibility. Of course in the working world, people could shift blame or workload to you. You need to learn how to deal with it as at the end of the day, you are still answerable to yourself, to your own consciousness.

Yeh play politics is a dirty game but in singapore, depends on the environment you are in.. u have to learn how to play with the laws and interpersonal relationship. Yeh.. bad guys look cool yeh but are they really happy?

abterror SG

Yeah, they are filty rich with hot babes. lol
The point is, like what she had put in her friendster.
Good ppl does not have good retribution. Neither will ppl who did things wrongly have bad retribution.
Should we take part of it in our hands?
Assuming if it is not against the law.
Depend on our will for revenges, revenge is sweet. aint it.
An eye for an eye?
How many times have we been blamed for things which ain't our intention.
How many times have the world been fair?
Should you have the opportunity to take things in ur hands, wont you want some control over it?
The only challenge is to forgo our rightous. How much are they worth?
Isn't it a weakness for your benevolence.
The world will not stop building weapons for peace.
But they will still build to protect themself.
Peace is just an idealogist. Will you throw away your weapon in the face of your enermy in war time?

Who will stop by and stay by your side when you are wounded by your benevolence?
None, because the world will not stop. Everyone has a life of their own.
They can listen but they cant do much.
Some may even laugh at our stupidity.
Is it our failure to react to situations? or our pride on doing it the "right" way that hinder our every move?

Can we possess something if we cant protect it?

abterror SG

Din't you have the experience to bear the blame or feeling when you are just threw with a verdict or due to other's misjudgement?

Then it affects your daily life, when the other party walks away happily.

New Creation SG

There is nothing wrong with an emotion as long as it does not manifest as a tangible action. I can say i hate this emotion of raping a chiobu that walks past me. But it is just an emotion, a fleeting one. As long as i do not actually do that, thats fine you see.

Even if you were to have notions of hate to somebody, there is nothing wrong to it. As long as you do not start to do things to hurt the person.

Side note, You are blessed to not know how to hate. ;-)

phil30k SG

Hate is when you know for a fact the world will be a better place without that person in it and the only thing keeping you from making the world a better place are the consequences to yourself.

Signs of hate include freely talking bad about them and not being concerned with slander or libel, making sure they have no friends. When you make them cry you're happy because you helped punish them. When they are in trouble you want to find out more so you can make it worse. When they die you offer thanks to God for being just.

That's hate.

phil30k SG

Here's a trick you may find helpful.

Say something outright and sickenly sweet and flattering to 1 person every 4 hours.

The world will change itself for you.

abterror SG

U mean go around poshlishing apple?

Q.C.Pak SG

why like Question

Laughing

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