Well u know some or most people in my class keep asking me "how
to do" this and that.
I would normally jusy help. But everytime i help, i dun get any
thank you or what. But then when i never help, some of them will
just say i'm selfish.
Then when i borrow them some stuff, i dun receive any thank you.
But when i decide not to lend out my stuff, they will just say i'm
selfish.
So today i decide not to help those whom i dun feel like
helpping. And then when they attempt to ask me a few time i just
asked them to refer to the teacher. Some of them also reply like
"Hey how to.... nvm i noe u also won't help rite?". I was thinknig
if you noe i won't help, why bother asking me...
So really, am i really that bad, i mean, sometime i'm really too
tired and wanted to take a break from all those helping. Then i'll
receive such comments/insults.
Well, if you are looking to be reciprocated, try not to reject
their requests, but instead, ask for help from them whenever you
need, sometimes even for the slightest thing to get back at them.
:twisted: (Say, go down the canteen and get some food for ya etc.)
Then if they reject to do so, it would be much easier for you to
say the same thing to them and reject to help them as well.
By this way, you would not feel exploited whenever they ask for
help from you.
Anyway, it's really plain rude for a friend to say something
like "Hey how to.... nvm i noe u also won't help rite?" to
you...wait, how old is he again? I would shove a middle finger
right at his face if I were you.
