themoment86 SG do you need a person to be with you…or do you want a person to be with you…someone told me say he need me…but at the same time..he wants to be with another person…differences between need and want..which is more important?i need to eat..i want to eat…it’s just got me confuse over this simple question..haha..
ShrodingersCat SG *snort* it just means you NEED to siam stupid guys like this who can't make up their minds instead of trying to figure out what they mean. But of course it depends whether you WANT to or not.
themoment86 SG am i a replacement?he says he need me...but..he wouldnt wan to lose someone who has been with him for 4years...he doesnt know what to do..he say he cant leave her becz she is so important... human are juz selfish.. they dun love u le but you are so important to them that they juz cant let you go or maybe they DUN even know that they themselves already do not have the feelings... is that true? hen ruan...we know we both love each other...we both know we cant do without each other...but he cant bear losing his gf....what should i do...
ShrodingersCat SG this type of men worst la.. do things san xin liang yi.. tuo ni dai shui dont give excuses for him by saying.. oohh he so 'responsible' .. to find it difficult to 'break up' with someone he is with for 4 years liao. cos hor.. doesn't mean next time he is with you.. he will also give you the same 'consideration' when he is gian with another girl loh.
Q.C.Pak SG let the man make a choice... if he doesnt...u can choose to forget about him indecisive matters in relationship problems will not last...
patdog112 SG dont worry.. i can do it u can do it.. see whether u are hardworking enough oni... I stay teckwhye area she stay yewtee area... by bus i go home at least need 30min.. schoolin wise i studying ITE west Baliasiter road , She study College East Simei... everymorning i woke up at 6am companying her to sch.. after bringin her to sch i took a bus back to my sch ( my lessons start late ) ...
themoment86 SG i knw it's not ez to get over and forget everything lo..HAIX but...we are the type that meet almost everyday when together...and it has become a habit..a routine...with him is very happy de...i knw he is indecisive..but it's really hard for mi to take it as nothing happen...without him my life is like missing something...and is in a form of missing alot of things...how i wish the day can pass fast fast...like that probably i will forget him faster...but i am still schooling ma...so after sch..suddenly like nth to do..quite weird lo...haix... so sorry that i hav to pour everything out here...but..i got no one to talk to...friends are so busy...all working...forum and blog is the onli place i can talk my heart out le...i feel so useless...such a weakling...=(
Guardx SG He is not indecisive but he is a very evil person. He knows that you will not let him go so he decides to go back to his gf and have you at the same time. On the other hand you feel lonely without him cos is habit already. Can you take it if you found him having sex with his gf in his bed? If you can by all means go with him cos no matter what we say here, is totally useless cos you are consider a hopeless case.
BrUtUs SG yes u r weak... so if he died in accident r u gonna die with him too? if u reali wan to get over him u can jz get some frens for start... theres so much ppl here oso therefore u can join the outings for a fresh start...
xavier1979 SG Then why are you with him? Time to rough it out on your own. Otherwise, people may label you as the slut who is trying to break up a 'perfectly normal' relationship. Pardon my language, but I seriously think that guy is a b*st*rd.
