Oh yes, i came across such incidents so many times liao, at
first i thot guys are just trying to be friendly and helpful, then
suddenly they made their move and i got stuck, u know kind of
difficult to reject after they helped me, but if it is to go out
with them, it might further deepen the misunderstanding on guys, I
just dun want to hurt a fren, but nevertheless, i hv to tell them
at face value that i like them, but never love them. Just hope they
take it as a guy and carry on.
I may hv dashed all their hopes and dreams, but i told myself that
this is the way, because you cannot waste their time and further
drag their dreams, it's no good, maybe they can get a better one or
someone is waiting for them.
Guys are sensitive creatures, in love, they like to hop on in
relationship and alway get the wrong signal as being frens is being
lovers. I dun blame them, they have their lovely side, it is
because they dun understand us. For our part, we must try not to
give wrong signal to them. Tell them our position and i think they
will be more grateful in that way.
