Dilemma

protollium SG

I share the same problem

My fren knew this gal b4 me, and i encouraged him to go after her.

But i developed feelings for her and told her my feelings.

My fren is chasing her too i think.

She told me she is unsure of me and him but will keep her options open.

I guess my fren din know i am chasing her.

From what i know, he is quite flirtatious and has many 'targets' definitely a woman's guy who can talk well. and the gal knows that also.

I dunno if she is treating him and me differently and who she prefers...

what should i do?

radioactivelk SG

leave her to choose... nothing much you can do...
unless you have something what your friend dun have...
do something romantic lorz... best solution to your problem

protollium SG

i know efforts counts but its quite hard to change a gal thru efforts... they like tat chemistry more....

and most gals like bad boys

de_middle SG

this kind of girls, stay away Neutral

sLeEpWaLkErInG SG

u potong jalan-er.. ask your friend to chase, then u steps in also..
smlj...

angel7030 SG

Not realli, as bad as i am, I like good boys with a good characters, understand the good and bad, advice me not to be bad and also care for me in a way of helping me to see a clearer picture of the bad things i do, and to stand up to be a good sggal.

bigdeal SG

if u want a gal badly, just do it. she is not ur friend's gf so just do it Twisted Evil

btw u posted at edmw too rite Mr. Green

jondizzle foshizzle SG

Don’t go for her if it’ll cause tension between you and your friend. One of the most important rules is bros before hoes.

protollium SG

Ya on edmw last night lol

TXian SG

if you do that, u are showing the girl that ur friends are more important. and that's a major turn off.

This kind of "bro" thing, most of the time is fake one la. A real gf will last u for life. You decide carefully..

mancha SG

She is hoping you friend would like her, and is waiting. She find you safe bet.

Its better you let her choose you, rather than you hook her. Because her eyes will be over there.

DEATHwawa SG

Same thing happened to me. I never tell her my feelings la. Cos all my friends call my another friend to chase her. I like pai seh to fight with my friend. Cos we brothers got this rule: never fight between a gal. But she still choose my friend at last. I just tell myself this: i never get her at least it’s my friend get her. Not like some random guy get her.

Sebastio SG

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xavier1979 SG

Either you give up on love, or you give up on friendship. Hope your friend is a magnanimous guy.

It took me years to heal the rift between me and my good friend when he thought I was wooing the girl he likes.