Dear Jojo,
On one hand, your arguement stands.
On the other hand, how long can one submit to another's wish.
I mean lets look at it from the aspect, no matter what genders we
are.
We are born by our parents, we have feelings.
I agree guys should give in more.
But how long can a relationship last with one side giving?
I had met guys who tell me that he has no conflict with his gf for
years.
Only by giving them what they have, I salute and respect them on
one hand.
But on the other, they have no life. Just slave of love. What are
they left with after the girl leave them? Nothing.
In short, in the micro aspect i agree what u have mentioned.
But in the macro aspect, we have to communicated thru.
I had met some relationship which broke up over only 1 arguement,
hence to me, it is a blessing to be able to argue or sort things
out in any way.
Like that time when i pushed her, i went over ur house and let her
wack me the very day.
But somtimes things may not be painted beautifully, we may love the
other party and we endure.
When arguement arise, we will just vomit out.
Even duo, it may not be a beautiful form of sorting things
out.
But ain't it care? i believe that we can do wat we want. the final
answer lies in our motive.
