What to do?

Sakuragi86 SG · 2008-01-25T01:25:08+00:00

hey TS…go for it..the forumees from sgForums will back u up all the way!!

Sakuragi86 SG

I liked this girl when we were in poly 2 years ago.I also can feel she like me abit.But never do anything since she had bf then.Recently i add her on facebook and she send me some applications on relationships one .But i dont dare to talk to her .What you all think i should do?

shobogen SG

ask and you shall be given

selfobliged SG

leave her alone since she has a bf!

Sakuragi86 SG

But i think they break up already.

MidnightK SG

it's online and you don't dare to talk to her..
forget it man..
how to talk to her face to face?

tut4nkh4m3n SG

x2

you know you got to take that chance dont you

coolgeek84 SG

U don’t dare to talk with her? Any particular reason? Its been 2 years already and you don’t even have the guts to talk to a gal whom you liked and that to thru online!! Go and send her msg la! Just send something like “hey how r u, long time never hear from u, what r u donig nowadays? we shd meetup sometime for coffee and catch up” or something along those lines..

allentyb_v2.01 SG

If you are so chicken S H I T, then good luck in having your very first girlfriend bah, and you are hopeless, can’t you just treat her normal as a friend, and work your way up, if you are going to keep your mouth shut, perhaps it would be best for you to just look for those 16 year old girl, perhaps it would be easier for you

MidnightK SG

not younger girl = easier to get..
it doesn't work this way..

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Could it be you interpret the signals wrongly? When a signal is sent, there's many way to interpret it. Smile

Those Facebook application thingy, don't take that as hints because she probably sent it to everyone in the list. Smile

de_middle SG

better be sure Neutral

nehpyh SG

Tell me her facebook email and I'll relay the message for you!!!!! Mr. Green

angel7030 SG

You better make sure, or else u may end up with a black eye pea.

My advice is go for first hand one.

ghast. SG

better don get too close, as much as you like her.

crimson soldier SG

A girl can buy you gifts, call you up and spend lotsa time with you; but if she doesn't say that she like you in those exact words, she doesn't like you.

It's really hard to confirm whether "she likes you" unless you pursue and ask her.

Since you are not very close to her atm I suggest you go for her then. It's always easier to chase some one who is not your "close friend"....isn't it?

Jamie Zawinski SG

you think, she thought, who confirm? Laughing

phil30k SG

Singapore does not have laws prohibiting a boy approaching a girl.
Our society does not expect you to have matching social standings.
Our community accepts that boys and girls can be friends.
Our Religions have a limited influence these days.
Our families don't arrange marriages.
Our friends will not stigmatize you if a girl rejects you.
Both boys and girls respect each other's right to choose bf/gf.
We learn and become better people from our experiences.
Rejection will still hurt.

frakfrakfrak SG

phil, switch off analysis mode yo, no more GP topic.

TS: Go for it lah, nothing to lose, everything to gain.

New Creation SG

Please do not over-read too much into this. A lot of men are trouble simply because they over-read a woman. This is NOTHING.

Do you think after 2 years have passed, she will have the same kind of affection for you? I do not think so. The only tangible signs that she is interested in you, is when she takes the initiative to ask you out to hang out with her and just her.

xavier1979 SG

Frankly, Nature has made it so that shy people like you will get extinct first.

So, PLUCK UP THAT COURAGE! It's not as though you're going to kneel down and propose to her right now. Words won't kill, right?