wait or give up?

Qex SG

for e.g. in a situation........where you are attracted to an attached girl but since she's attached, thr's no chance. WOuld you rather give up or keep waiting?

2 sides to a coin. if you dun give up, you would keep thinking that someday they would break off and ur chance will come. you believe that sincerity can work in this situation.

2ndly, you give up because you believe that since the girl is attached, you have no point in trying to...wait for a chance. so as then in order to totally get her out of your world, you delete her off msn, and cease whatever talks ya know...because u realise if this continues, you are the only 1 going to sink deeper and deeper. The 1 who is going to be hurt the most is urself since she knows ur a spare tyre.

what r ur views?

jonchao72 SG

i give up on reading all this…

BrUtUs SG

hv u ask urself if she is the only girl(with a bf) in the world tat u hv to diedie get? hv u taken a look arnd? go socio arnd more...

MidnightK SG

attached girl, give up..
what for waste your time waiting..

she may be unhappy with the current bf, whines to you..
so?
she will still be with him..

ghast. SG

no. give up on her. she’s taken. no point trying to wait for them to break up. imagine someone awaiting yr gf n u to break up n u’ll noe wad it feels

CannyOng SG

Tell us how good is the gal la.. Let us see whether she is worth waiting for! Mr. Green

New Creation SG

As crude as it sounds, forget her. You can still maintain a decent line of communication with her as a normal platonic friend just to make sure she does not forget you lar. In the mean time, go on and date other girls. One fine day, when she breaks up, you will know abt it. And by then, you assess if you have chance or not.

It sounds bastard-ish but its all about the PURSUIT of HAPPYness.

soleachip SG

i think you think too much mate. why don't you just woo her and at the same time keep your options open?

she may be attached but as long as she isn't married, why can't you pursue her? love itself is an ugly affair, why is it impossible to break up a happy union?

i say you start by becoming her confidant, play the devil's advocate, find out how her boyfriend is like first so you can become the kind of chap she wants. Mr. Green

good luck and remember to report your progress!

Hanagata SG

i like this answer short and simple....

de_middle SG

dun waste time

<Precious> SG

Wait does not necessarily putting every aspect of your life on hold ma.... Laughing

Keep 1 eye on it as you seek to develop others la! Wink

Doh! Razz

In_Between_Days SG

There r so many fish in the sea...y do u hav 2 run after an attached gal...i dun understand...

Imagine if u were her bf...and someone else was dreaming day and nite about yur gal...how wld u feel?

Getting sick of reading all this BS too...

Tier SG

Seriously going for a girl who is attached, is so wrong.
Why make life so complicated. Confused

Being the 3rd party is so yucky.

Even if in the end u have her with you.
She may do the same in future.

Evil or Very Mad I dun believe true love is like that.

No9 SG

me 2. sigh.

Isis SG

hmm just shun ji zi run lor.

twiggies SG

don't waste your time on girls. there are lots of other things to go for Exclamation

onlooker123 SG

No point waiting.

Either

1) Chase

or

2) Give up and move on

Attached can still chase what.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

No much difference whether she's attached or not. The only thing that matters is if she have feels for you.

Even if she doesn't have any feelings for me, I'll wait. Even if it mean waiting for that day which will never come.

babymac13 SG

Wait while you can ...
but if you find the right girl at the right time, you should grab the opportunity.

mortified SG

my friend taught me a theory in the past, i found that it really works. if a woman is just in a relationship, you still stand a chance. if she’s married, then back off.